Im so fed up and feel like im losing it. DH cannot seem to clean, he gets me to do everything. His auntie comes over here once a week to watch the kids while I go to work. And she is so judgemental about house cleaning. DH knows how is auntie is, and yet, continues to just contribute to the mess and not help out. He will clean up once a month and its like he thinks that's all he has to do. I don't know what to do. I feel like just leaving him And then he wonders when I want to get a personal cook. UGH
Honestly, with me being full time in college, SO working full time, and a toddler ripping the house apart, I don't clean all the time anymore. And I have judgmental family that has something to say about it, but I've told them many times, a little clutter in the house is not going to hurt M-Fri, it's always clean by Saturdays, and besides that it's none of their business. My kid is happy, healthy, and the kitchen stays clean, and dishes get done daily. I don't see an issue with a little clutter.
Ignore the judgmental family members. They aren't worth your time.