Tips on how to get in the mood? :/

So apparently having sex only once sometimes twice a week isn't enough especially when SO wants it more and I'm a bad wife for making him suffer because I'm tired from taking care of our 2 children all day and being 12wks pregnant (no people didn't specificly say I was being a bad wife its just how I took what they said).

I'm uncomfortable with the way I look from the weight I put on with our first LO and being pregnant right now theres not much I can do about it, besides eat right and do light exercise which I have been, so far I've lost 6lbs in 8wks mostly from the morning sickness and loss of appatite though.

Anyways I don't find myself getting "in the mood" that often, even when we do have sex now I just do it cause I feel bad we haven't done it in a little while and I mean I have fun and get off but it always takes so much effort to get me going. Any tips on how to put yourself in a better mind sets before sex so I want it want it and not just want it when I get close to orgasming or whatever.

Fantasize about something that would normally turn you on.

Foreplay

Oral sex

Do you guys do foreplay? I am tired from taking care of the kids/house/pets all day and I'm 28 weeks pregnant with number 3, my husband completely understands that he needs to put in some extra effort to get me going. Lots of foreplay and I am absolutely NOT in the mood at night, too tired, it needs to happen in the morning or some other time during the day, not before bed.

watching...31 weeks tomorrow and yeah..haven't had sex in like 3 weeks :/ I feel so bad too! I'm just either horribly exhausted or not even close to in the mood.

Porn and foreplay do it for me. I never want it either pregnant or not.

You could always give him oral sex or a hand job if he's not in the mood. Fantasize, or role play. Have lots of foreplay, or masturbate by yourself a little bit first, to get going. Watch some porn, maybe.

Its me thats never in the mood, he it seems would be in the mood anytime I say hey wanna have sex he'd be like sure do. Foreplay just doesn't work for me anymore. I'm always dry and its not until after we get going like he's already in me that I even get wet a little and its super uncomfortable until that happens. I just don't know whats going on with my body since our last LO was born its been like this ):

<blockquote><b>Quoting Brooke&Joshua+2.5:</b>" Its me thats never in the mood, he it seems would be in the mood anytime I say hey wanna have sex he'd ... [snip!] ... until that happens. I just don't know whats going on with my body since our last LO was born its been like this ):"</blockquote>



I've been like that since I had my daughter, Breastfeeding and being pregnant makes me really really dry.
LUBE IS YOUR BEST FRIEND!

Quoting MommaSav2:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Brooke&Joshua+2.5:</b>" Its me thats never in the mood, he it ... [snip!] ... been like that since I had my daughter, Breastfeeding and being pregnant makes me really really dry. LUBE IS YOUR BEST FRIEND!"

 

Warming lube is awesome.

Quoting MommaSav2:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Brooke&Joshua+2.5:</b>" Its me thats never in the mood, he it ... [snip!] ... been like that since I had my daughter, Breastfeeding and being pregnant makes me really really dry. LUBE IS YOUR BEST FRIEND!"

Yeah I mean theres nothing wrong with it. I feel like if we're having to use it everytime though SO might feel like he's not good enough or whatever to get me going on his own.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Brooke&Joshua+2.5:</b>" Yeah I mean theres nothing wrong with it. I feel like if we're having to use it everytime though SO might feel like he's not good enough or whatever to get me going on his own."</blockquote>



It has nothing to do with him. It's hormonal.

Quoting MommaSav2:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Brooke&Joshua+2.5:</b>" Yeah I mean theres nothing wrong with ... [snip!] ... not good enough or whatever to get me going on his own."</blockquote> It has nothing to do with him. It's hormonal."

Is there anything I can do to fix it so I'm not always like that?

Quoting Brooke&Joshua+2.5:" So apparently having sex only once sometimes twice a week isn't enough especially when SO wants it more ... [snip!] ... yourself in a better mind sets before sex so I want it want it and not just want it when I get close to orgasming or whatever."

Hello dear,
So, my SO and I used to get it on multiple times every single day and for the past year we were only doing it like once every 4 or so months. I've done research on google to find out how to pleasure my husband and by doing that, it gets me excited and in the mood because of the new things that I want to try that I've never tried before. I'm never in the mood ether because I have 2 little ones and I'm exhausted by 8:30. But.... Laying in bed naked together, giving body massages, and new things have made us our crazy selves again that we used to be.
If you really want to know ideas just pm me or do the research yourself on google.   I hope I kinda helped

Quoting LAAM:" Hello dear, So, my SO and I used to get it on multiple times every single day and for the past year ... [snip!] ... that we used to be. If you really want to know ideas just pm me or do the research yourself on google.   I hope I kinda helped"

I might just have to start looking things up on google or whatever see if we're missing out on anything different

Quoting LAAM:" Hello dear, So, my SO and I used to get it on multiple times every single day and for the past year ... [snip!] ... that we used to be. If you really want to know ideas just pm me or do the research yourself on google.   I hope I kinda helped"

I might just have to start looking things up on google or whatever see if we're missing out on anything different