Quoting Brooke&Joshua+2.5:" So apparently having sex only once sometimes twice a week isn't enough especially when SO wants it more ... [snip!] ... yourself in a better mind sets before sex so I want it want it and not just want it when I get close to orgasming or whatever."
So, my SO and I used to get it on multiple times every single day and for the past year we were only doing it like once every 4 or so months. I've done research on google to find out how to pleasure my husband and by doing that, it gets me excited and in the mood because of the new things that I want to try that I've never tried before. I'm never in the mood ether because I have 2 little ones and I'm exhausted by 8:30. But.... Laying in bed naked together, giving body massages, and new things have made us our crazy selves again that we used to be.
If you really want to know ideas just pm me or do the research yourself on google.
I hope I kinda helped