Quoting just l00kin:" <blockquote><b>Quoting S U Z I E:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting just l00kin:</b>" ... [snip!] ... will the phase stop. i m just getting annoyed with the fact that i have to pick up his toys every 2 second or else he ll cry"
I'm probably going to get all sorts of flack for this.... Let him Cry. He will learn very quickly that you are NOT at his beck and call. I pick it up the first time, and tell him no more, or its going to stay there. He drops it again, I do exactly what I said. I let it stay there. If he wants it, he'll pick it up. If he doesn't, he'll walk off and find something else.
Yes, he is learning cause and effect... if he drops it, it will fall. You are also teaching him this cause and effect... if I drop it, and cry, Mommy will come pick it up for me, and I don't have to do it myself. This is setting the foundation for later, when its "if I cry, Mommy will (give me/let me do) whatever I want.
Its okay to let him cry for a few minutes. It might get on your nerves (I know, I've been through this twice now), but "this too shall pass".