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Bring him to the hospital to get checked out and then call the police.

Get him to the dr ASAP and they can find out if anything is being done to your son or if there's something else inside going on!!

Quoting Wonderstruck ♥:" My son goes to his dads every weekend. He came back this week FREAKING OUT if I wipe / touch his butt ... [snip!] ... his dads and it started. IDK what to do. BD is freaking out saying i'm accusing him but i'm just trying to figure things out."

thats very strange is there anyway you could take you LO to the docs and they could figure it out whether something has happened to him?
maybe his dad smacked him on the bottom and thats why hes frightened? idk though it seems very unusual.

Yup doctor immediately. Hope it's nothing serious.

Maybe his dad just doesnt handle poops well, maybe he scolds gets angry uses mean words or just gets frustrated, or maybe he was spanked.. or maybe someone else that cleaned him was like that.
My daughter grandpa mocked her while she pooped and it really made her uncomfortable she will not use the restroom at his house so she has accidents all the time which makes him really angry.. I have to not let him watch her as much because of it.

Quoting ♥ axel sean n me:" thats very strange is there anyway you could take you LO to the docs and they could figure it out whether ... [snip!] ... has happened to him? maybe his dad smacked him on the bottom and thats why hes frightened? idk though it seems very unusual."

I do know that BD tends to spank as primary form of punishment which i dont agree with.


I should add he got an enema a couple months back that could have triggered this kind of reaction buuut that was also MONTHS AGO....

Quoting supa~~fly:" Get him to the dr ASAP and they can find out if anything is being done to your son or if there's something else inside going on!!"

how would they be able to tell if he was being molested ??
I just don't want to ignore my son's reaction and have it turn out to be something serious.. i'd rather take him and find out i was just overreacting.

Maybe your BD wipes your son too hard when he poops. I've accidentally done that before and DD hated me to wipe her the rest of the day.

If you truly think there is possible abuse get him checked. That being said my oldest around 2 went through a phase where she hated being wiped. She would kick and scream and fight. This started about 3 weeks after she had to have a cath. Of course if you truly think its molestation its better safe than sorry.

Quoting Jennybananna:" If you truly think there is possible abuse get him checked. That being said my oldest around 2 went through ... [snip!] ... started about 3 weeks after she had to have a cath. Of course if you truly think its molestation its better safe than sorry. "

My mom thinks it's just a stage and i don't believe his dad would do that.
He just has 2 exchange students and his older brother whom i don't trust.
BD said the kids never leave his sight when they are there so maybe i'll make an appt with his pedi and see what he thinks.
I just like i said, don't want to ignore something serious.

Quoting Wonderstruck ♥:" I do know that BD tends to spank as primary form of punishment which i dont agree with. I should add ... [snip!] ... add he got an enema a couple months back that could have triggered this kind of reaction buuut that was also MONTHS AGO...."

im guessing hes spanked him probably and maybe hard. does it seem like hes in pain? does he have any marks/bruises?
anything at all?

Quoting Wonderstruck ♥:" how would they be able to tell if he was being molested ?? I just don't want to ignore my son's reaction ... [snip!] ... my son's reaction and have it turn out to be something serious.. i'd rather take him and find out i was just overreacting."

They can tell if the skin or anything down there is messed up in any way shape or form. That's how they found out I was being molested and then my brother admitted to it. I went through 3 years of it and nobody would stop it.

I would get your son in to see his dr asap and tell them your concerns and your worries and get to the bottom of why your son freaks out!

Quoting Wonderstruck ♥:" My mom thinks it's just a stage and i don't believe his dad would do that. He just has 2 exchange students ... [snip!] ... so maybe i'll make an appt with his pedi and see what he thinks. I just like i said, don't want to ignore something serious."

How old is he? Could he communicate with you if something was happening or can he answer questions if you ask?

How old is your son? DS freaks out if we try to wipe his butt and we know nothing has happened to him because he is litterally only with us. He is 18 months and has only been doing it for the past 2 wks.

I would jump to molestation but i would take him to a dr to rule stuff out.