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Quoting supa~~fly:" They can tell if the skin or anything down there is messed up in any way shape or form. That's how they ... [snip!] ... your son in to see his dr asap and tell them your concerns and your worries and get to the bottom of why your son freaks out!"

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i was molested but didnt have any tests or anything, but when i got raped there was lots of tests/swabbing.

He'll be 3 next month.

He communicates really well, but idk if i was to ask him if he'd just agree with whatever I was saying, and if it'd be the truth ya know?
I plan on bringing him to the pedi's tomorrow morning.

Quoting ♥ axel sean n me:" ! i was molested but didnt have any tests or anything, but when i got raped there was lots of tests/swabbing."

They were able to tell that I was tore in some places. I had tear marks in my vagina that were able to be seen with the eye and I had tears in my rectum that there were able to see with their scope. I was put under for it due to me being so young they didn't want me to freak out on the table while they were looking.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Wonderstruck ♥:</b>" He'll be 3 next month. He communicates really well, but idk if i was to ask him if he'd just agree with ... [snip!] ... just agree with whatever I was saying, and if it'd be the truth ya know? I plan on bringing him to the pedi's tomorrow morning."</blockquote>




Well if you do ask I would only use question that can't be taken for leading. Like "why do you cry when mommy wipes you?" "Are you hurt?" "Did something hurt your butt?" Don't ask if "someone" (and I mean a specific name) hurt it. You can ask "did someone or something hurt your butt?"

Quoting Jenna+1:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Wonderstruck ♥:</b>" He'll be 3 next month. He communicates ... [snip!] ... your butt?" Don't ask if "someone" (and I mean a specific name) hurt it. You can ask "did someone or something hurt your butt?""

he's in bed now but i plan on asking tomorrow.
The only people who watch him at my house are me, or my parents.
Who would NEVER ever do such a thing.

I plan on asking and scheduling an appt for him.
and i'm not leaving until I get some answer better then "it's just his age"

I agree with your mom its a stage. But take him to the doctor to get checked out to put you mind at rest