re: I hope it's not what I think...HELP!

Quoting Totally in love with her:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Soon 2B Mom of 2:</b>" There is a simple way to know if it is ... [snip!] ... In my mouth it's a bump and on my labia it feels like a bump and but isn't super raised so it could turn into a cold sore."

Doesnt sound like herpes. Like I said though, that doesnt eliminate other STDs. Definately get checked out, but even if you do have something, it really isnt the end of the world.

Not sure what it could be but I wish you the best. Hope it's nothing serious.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Totally in love with her:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Preggo Bear Claw:</b>" I'm so sorry, but ... If these symptoms ... [snip!] ... him at his house with my results because he's the only guy I've slept with unprotected in months. I think he knows/knew."</blockquote>

Ohh smurf that ... Yeah, he knows what's up... Make sure if you test positive for anything you give the doctor his name and address ... I hope it's nothing though, that's a smurffy situation all around :-(

<blockquote><b>Quoting Cass Hole:</b>" It kind of sounds like Syphilis. Good luck to you!! "</blockquote>


The info I find on syphilis says it takes 10-90 days usually around 21 days. It's been 5. And the bump is tender, which online it says it will be not tender and usually goes unnoticed.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Soon 2B Mom of 2:</b>" Doesnt sound like herpes. Like I said though, that doesnt eliminate other STDs. Definately get checked out, but even if you do have something, it really isnt the end of the world."</blockquote>


Thank you for saying that. Seriously, I needed to hear that.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Preggo Bear Claw:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Totally in love with her:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... for anything you give the doctor his name and address ... I hope it's nothing though, that's a smurffy situation all around :-("</blockquote>

I plan on it, thanks.

Quoting Totally in love with her:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Soon 2B Mom of 2:</b>" Doesnt sound like herpes. Like I said ... [snip!] ... it really isnt the end of the world."</blockquote> Thank you for saying that. Seriously, I needed to hear that."

Stds are extremely common. 1 out of every 4 people have herpes. Half of the women I know have had chlamydia at one point or another. It doesnt mean your dirty, or that you did anything wrong. It just means you slept with the wrong person, or the person you slept with, slept with the wrong person before you (if that makes sense lol). You have absolutely nothing to be ashamed of, or feel dirty about. If your tests come back positive, feel free to PM me, and there other support groups online that you can find.

I had this same thing when I was in highschool. Went to my family doc, who treated me like Smurf and told me I probably has syphilis (which can appear 3-90 days after contact).
It ended up being a really bad ingrown hair down under.
Hopefully it's the same for you. Good luck! And smurf that smurf.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Totally in love with her:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Preggo Bear Claw:</b>" I'm so sorry, but ... If these symptoms ... [snip!] ... him at his house with my results because he's the only guy I've slept with unprotected in months. I think he knows/knew."</blockquote>




That sucks!!! I would call your gyno and make an apt for an std screening. Get tested for everything while you are there.

Quoting Totally in love with her:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Cass Hole:</b>" It kind of sounds like Syphilis. Good luck ... [snip!] ... around 21 days. It's been 5. And the bump is tender, which online it says it will be not tender and usually goes unnoticed."

I still wouldn't rule it out. It could be an ingrown hair but you said you have a similar bump IN your mouth so I doubt it's an ingrown hair. I would just have them test for everything! Have you talked to the guy since noticing the bumps?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Cass Hole:</b>" It kind of sounds like Syphilis. Good luck to you!! "</blockquote>




This

Good luck, OP! And next time you see him you should chew him out!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Cass Hole:</b>" I still wouldn't rule it out. It could be an ingrown hair but you said you have a similar bump IN your ... [snip!] ... I doubt it's an ingrown hair. I would just have them test for everything! Have you talked to the guy since noticing the bumps? "</blockquote>

No I haven't spoken to him. He won't answer my calls or texts. But I know where he lives so I will make nice house call when I get the results to let him know exactly what he's caused and hope he becomes more responsible.

Thanks

<blockquote><b>Quoting Not tellin:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Totally in love with her:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... That sucks!!! I would call your gyno and make an apt for an std screening. Get tested for everything while you are there."</blockquote>


I go tomorrow morning, and I plan to have every panel run because I want to know exactly what I'm dealing with.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Soon 2B Mom of 2:</b>" Stds are extremely common. 1 out of every 4 people have herpes. Half of the women I know have had chlamydia ... [snip!] ... dirty about. If your tests come back positive, feel free to PM me, and there other support groups online that you can find."</blockquote>


Thank so much. I definitely will.