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The dogs need food, hes spending money on parties.....AND he goes to pick out his expensive gifts you buy him.

And you call yourself selfish??? Hunny....you're SO is a user.

Then why are you buying him stuff? No offense but he clearly doesn't care how you feel, he seems selfish.

If you cant afford to feed your dogs then you shouldn't be buying gifts period. Its his money and he can spend it how he likes but it sounds like you both need to budget better. You cant agree not to give gifts then change your mind and get mad that you dont get one. Work on getting in a better financial situation before dropping $300+ on gifts.

I wouldn't be buying him anything either.... thats unfair.... from what I read he has money but blows it partying... if he can't see how unfair he is being then I would not be buying him anything either.

Quoting A Beautiful Disaster:" The dogs need food, hes spending money on parties.....AND he goes to pick out his expensive gifts you buy him. And you call yourself selfish??? Hunny....you're SO is a user. "

I agree with this!!

Sounds like you both need to get your priorities straight.

Quoting A Beautiful Disaster:" The dogs need food, hes spending money on parties.....AND he goes to pick out his expensive gifts you buy him. And you call yourself selfish??? Hunny....you're SO is a user. "

He hasn't always been like this...
I donno if it's cause the baby is well on his way that he's started bingeing (sp) again? or what but I do know money will be the reason we eventually break up..  

Quoting Jennybananna:" If you cant afford to feed your dogs then you shouldn't be buying gifts period. Its his money and he ... [snip!] ... your mind and get mad that you dont get one. Work on getting in a better financial situation before dropping $300+ on gifts."

well the earrings originally were only $80 but when they arrived they were so tiney tiny (like for a newborn) that we took them back and i made the mistake of letting him pick out the new ones...  

If you can't feed your dogs, how are you going to pay for a baby?

Quoting B-Baby:" He hasn't always been like this... I donno if it's cause the baby is well on his way that he's started bingeing (sp) again? or what but I do know money will be the reason we eventually break up..   "

You cant afford to feed your dogs you have a kid on the way and you are still dropping money on things that arent needed? Time to check your priorities.

Quoting B-Baby:" He hasn't always been like this... I donno if it's cause the baby is well on his way that he's started bingeing (sp) again? or what but I do know money will be the reason we eventually break up..   "

And you defend him.........seen that coming a mile away

Quoting Baby_Majick:" I wouldn't be buying him anything either.... thats unfair.... from what I read he has money but blows ... [snip!] ... he has money but blows it partying... if he can't see how unfair he is being then I would not be buying him anything either. "

then I feel bad cause I already promised I would. BUT he also said he was planing something for me... that was until he blew his money this past week...

Quoting speaktruth2powr:" If you can't feed your dogs, how are you going to pay for a baby?"

  yaaaa....

Quoting B-Baby:" then I feel bad cause I already promised I would. BUT he also said he was planing something for me... that was until he blew his money this past week... "

PRIORITIES you are about to become a mother. Stop spoiling your man and take care of what you have to.