re: How Do I Say Sorry?

Quoting Emma Catherine's mommy:" and dont text him wait until you can talk to him"

You're right I'll just text him saying I have something to say and want to talk about it. He says I never want to talk about things I just bottle them up so this will probably make him happy and maayyybbeee make him budge just a little or at least compromise with me. I mean if he said in 2 years we will buy you a car of your choice, I'd shut my smurfing mouth and just count the days lol but he just says no. No, no, no.  

Quoting Rydicule91:" Our 77 chevy just went on us! So I though this would work out we'd get a new car and both be happy we ... [snip!] ... the buick and I got a different car. But I'm just not going about this the right way. I'm so impatient! That's my problem  "

same here im constantly irritated because of the situation and it is causing a lot of fights im sorry your going through it I hope it gets better

Quoting Emma Catherine's mommy:" same here im constantly irritated because of the situation and it is causing a lot of fights im sorry your going through it I hope it gets better"

Me too! I'm just pissed. Like I really WANT to just drop it but my mind won't quit! I'm sure we will figure it out. Thanks for the help! I don't usually ask relationship questions but I was at a loss with this because I feel like I'm being the unreasonable one. But I think we both are not compromising much about this.

your welcome. I know exactly how you feel I'm really trying to keep my bitchiness under control but that is so much easier said than done

<blockquote><b>Quoting Rydicule91:</b>" Men, it has to be on their terms!! I know I'm being a brat because I just want a prettier car. But ... [snip!] ... buy one. I DO work for my smurf, so I'm not just handed things and not appreciative of them. I hope you guys find a compromise!"</blockquote>




You too! Good luck!

Quoting 3 little monsters:" This isn't about you and your situation. I really hate when people try to guilt others into feeling ... [snip!] ... post your own thread, don't make the OP feel guilty because your situation sucks. This isn't about you or your problems. "

Bitch, much?

She was just trying to say there are worse things. Which there are. But OP, I DO get why you would be upset. Just talk about it and make sure your apology is genuine.   Sometimes we have to compromise in a relationship. It sucks, but it'll be ok.

Quoting Rydicule91:" He said he is going to soon, I guess I'm more upset just because I want something and can't have it, ... [snip!] ... and can't have it, but when he wants something we get it. I'm just being a whiney brat huh? But should he get the new tv then? "

no, getting a tax refund isn't really an excuse to buy smurf you don't need. You don't need a new car and he doesn't need a new tv.

Quoting Angel [Mariah's Mommy]:" no, getting a tax refund isn't really an excuse to buy smurf you don't need. You don't need a new car and he doesn't need a new tv. "

Thank you! That sound fair to me, I can wait on the car as long as he's not going out buying new smurf when we have already have it. I appreciate the honesty!

Quoting KyliesMommy2012:" Bitch, much? She was just trying to say there are worse things. Which there are. But OP, I DO get ... [snip!] ... it and make sure your apology is genuine.   Sometimes we have to compromise in a relationship. It sucks, but it'll be ok."

I think it's pretty bitchy when you post about something that is bothering you and get a response"You think that's bad? MY situation sucks so much more and you should be grateful because of how much crappier my situation is.".

Quoting 3 little monsters:" I think it's pretty bitchy when you post about something that is bothering you and get a response"You ... [snip!] ... think that's bad? MY situation sucks so much more and you should be grateful because of how much crappier my situation is.". "

  This is a good point.

I'm almost in the same situation. We've had our car for almost 3 years now and its a great car and everything, but we are planning a trip to move to GA with our taxes and seeing that our car needs a lot of work, I mentioned to my DH about getting a truck that way we could just use that and rent a trailer. I've always just been handed things to me my whole life, my DH is the only one to ever really tell me know when I want something and I do tend to get upset about it, but if its something that could be put on hold then i'll just let it go. I would just say that I was sorry for reacting in such a way and when he got home just sit him down and tell him whats bothering you. I wouldn't even mention "we need to talk over text," no man or woman wants to hear those words lol.

<blockquote><b>Quoting 3 little monsters:</b>" I think it's pretty bitchy when you post about something that is bothering you and get a response"You ... [snip!] ... think that's bad? MY situation sucks so much more and you should be grateful because of how much crappier my situation is.". "</blockquote>




Well you're just a bitch period. I wasn't attacking op I just felt it was something minor to be upset about. There are so many people without a vehicle that wouldn't care if they had a crappy car as long as they had one to get from point a to point b. And i wasnt saying my situation was worse or anything. In a post i made i posted how we were just about to get a car so that solved our problem. I was pointing out it was something stupid to be so upset over. When you have gone without a vehicle and no way to get groceries or anything, you dont complain about what a vehicle looks like lol. You are grateful for what you have. But whatever. Lol

Quoting Lin Brown:" I'm almost in the same situation. We've had our car for almost 3 years now and its a great car and everything, ... [snip!] ... him whats bothering you. I wouldn't even mention "we need to talk over text," no man or woman wants to hear those words lol. "

Haha right, give him a heart attack. Well we did talk last night! I just said sorry for being a bitch lately, and he asked what makes me think that? And I told him for being mean and picking fights, and smiled his smurfing smile I can't resist and melted. Then I told him I'm mad because I just want a prettier car and this one is like doing some sputtering when it gets on the highway like not enough gas is getting to the engine, so we still haven't really come to a compromise on that yet but he isn't getting his new tv anymore, we're putting it away for our son. I mean I know a lot of people don't have cars and I should be happy. Buuuttt are the people out there with sports cars and pimped out rides settling for some smurfing buick? No, and I don't want some fancy 20,000 car I just want something a little nicer just a few years newer. I don't feel like that's so much to ask for especially when we both work our asses off for what we have. Thanks for reading my bitchy post hahaha

Quoting Rydicule91:" Haha right, give him a heart attack. Well we did talk last night! I just said sorry for being a bitch ... [snip!] ... so much to ask for especially when we both work our asses off for what we have. Thanks for reading my bitchy post hahaha "

I completely understand where you are coming from, i'm hoping you guys can compromise. I've been trying to get a car since last year, but I figured with us moving there would be a more possibility of getting one since I don't think our car can make another 1800+ mile trip. with the people that have it worse and don't have a car at all... i'm sorry, but there are ways to make things better, you just need to work at it.