Quoting κατι:" Every man looks at porn well most, It's natural. If they say they don't or never have well that's a ... [snip!] ... a lie. I don't have a problem with my SO watching it either as long as it isn't affecting our sex life I could care less. "
Quoting 3 little monsters:" I don't believe that, it's like saying all women watch porn. Some do, some don't. I'm sure there are ... [snip!] ... are lying because you are lumping all men into a general cast. Porn is a personal preference, not an unavoidable fact of life. "
Quoting κατι:" I said most do,not all.... That goes with the lying too."
Quoting 3 little monsters:" Okay I'll give you that but it seems kinda smurffy that if a guy said "I don't watch porn" you would assume he is lying rather than believe him. "
Quoting κατι:" Alot (not all) of guys will lie about it,but I don't have that problem with my SO. We watch it together sometimes now that's fun. "
Quoting Brooke&Joshua+2.5:" A while back SO and I were watching a movie, no idea what it was now but the topic of either a 3-some ... [snip!] ... still hurt you know. I'm just so overly emotional right now and he's gonna be home anytime now from work and getting dinner."
Quoting and then there were 3.:" Different strokes for different folks. If me and DH was watching sexy people doing the dirty right in ... [snip!] ... probably hear a few choice words. Not EVERY man is a sex hound, not every person likes porn or is comfortable with it. KWIM?"Yes I completely understand. I am so thankful for porn because if it wasn't there we would have an overwhelming amount of sex, and I don't have time for all of that. haha. But my ex never wanted sex and shamed me for watching it, so I have been on that side of the fence too.
Quoting κατι:" Every man looks at porn well most, It's natural. If they say they don't or never have well that's a ... [snip!] ... a lie. I don't have a problem with my SO watching it either as long as it isn't affecting our sex life I could care less. "Agreed, if it came to the point where it was excessive or they stopped having sex because of it. But that is extreme, and I have never had it happen to me.