TTC.. painful?

basically me and my husband are TTC. Im currently in my fertility window (5 days into it)
We had sex the 1st day..3rd day (he didnt do it inside) and last night. Sex was fine, however last night it was painful. It felt like he was hitting my cervix constantly and it was an achy pain.
Does this mean anything?
Ive also had loads of discharge, Dizziness and loads of cramping.
We have also done it a handful of times in the month.
Has anyone been pregnant and not known and had painful sex in the very early stages?
I dont wanna get my hopes up..
Thankyou

If it was painful, like your husband was hitting your cervix, you have likely passed your fertile window (your cervix becomes hard and long after ovulation). Is it possible that the extra cervical fluid you are noticing is actually semen?

I also have quite heavy fertile looking cervical fluid a few days after I ovulate (I think I have two mostly dry days and then another very slipper days). I haven't been charting for long though.

Have you read Taking Charge of Your Fertility? If not, it is fantastic  .

Quoting Roe23:" If it was painful, like your husband was hitting your cervix, you have likely passed your fertile window ... [snip!] ... days). I haven't been charting for long though. Have you read Taking Charge of Your Fertility? If not, it is fantastic  ."

no hun i havent. oh right i have done about 6 of the ovulation calenders using my last 3 periods and it says this week. maybe yesterday was my O day.
no ive not read it. will hve to have a look.
Thankyou for your help x