How do you cope with being dumped in the middle of your preg

I am 18 weeks pregnant. A couple of days ago, my boyfriend and I got into another fight, and by another, I mean we fight constantly. Usually our fights stem from his drinking problem whether its something stupid he did while drinking, or because of how much he is drinking, or because he did something that pissed me off and then I act like a bitch because of it.
Our most recent fight was because the night before, he got really drunk and was kinda being dick. We hadnt hung out in two weeks because he hadnt contacted me, and when he finally did i cam over to his place to spend time with him, and he basically spent the whole night getting drunk and hanging out with everyone else at the house. Hurt, I decided to vent to one of the girls in the house about it, I told them about everything he had been doing that had hurt me, I had just held it in for so long that i needed to get it out to someone. Well, she told him everything I said, and he was LIVID. He told me he was done with me and I just talk way too much smurf. I sent him a message apologizing for talking about our problems to someone other than him, but he read it and didnt reply.
I am truly heartbroken and trying to act like im not, I dont know what to do or how to cope with this. :/

Should I make another attempt to talk with him, or should I leave it be and wait and see if he contacts me? My ultrasound to find out the sex is in 5 days, and I really want him there. I just cant stop thinking about it, and I don't know what to do.  

I wouldn't stay in that sort of relationship. I could never be in a relationship where we fight constantly. Been there, done that, never want to go back. I don't want my son to have to see those sorts of things on a daily basis, it's not fair to him.

Honestly, if your constantly fight then youre better off without him. Do you really want to bring your child into that enviroment? It sounds like a toxic relationship and that he needs to grow up a bit and realize that having a drinking problem and raising a child dont mix.
I understand its hard but put your baby first! You dont need him there for the ultrasound if hes such a dick.
Me and BD broke up when I was 12 weeks. And Im thankful we did. Hes a POS dad who puts himself and his drugs/alcohol before DS. We fought all the time too and Im glad DS doesnt have to witness it. I met a great guy when I was 7 months pregnant and have never been happier.

Quoting ♥MamaToSilas♥:" Honestly, if your constantly fight then youre better off without him. Do you really want to bring your ... [snip!] ... time too and Im glad DS doesnt have to witness it. I met a great guy when I was 7 months pregnant and have never been happier."

In regards to the ultrasound part. I asked my ex to show up to my first scan (8weeks) but he never came. That pretty much ended everything there.

I wouldnt ask him to be there, if he is a man, he will be there on his own. I wouldn't stay in a relationship like that, just focus on you and baby.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kyan and baby's mum:</b>" In regards to the ultrasound part. I asked my ex to show up to my first scan (8weeks) but he never came. That pretty much ended everything there."</blockquote>


BD showed up at my 32 week one because his mom told him the time and day   I was just whatever about it till he kept bitching that it was taking too long, rolled his eyes when the tech was making jokes about how DS was sucking on his fingers, and paid more attention to his phone than the screen. He made mention that it was a waste of time and then after asked me for money to eat. I told him to kick rocks.

Quoting ♥MamaToSilas♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kyan and baby's mum:</b>" In regards to the ultrasound part. ... [snip!] ... the screen. He made mention that it was a waste of time and then after asked me for money to eat. I told him to kick rocks."

OMG!!!! Some people were seriously never meant to be parents! I love all of my ultrasounds, i love seeing everything, and my now partner is always really engaged when we go to ultrasounds now. I'm so glad I left my ex. Life is so much easier without him!