Quoting A mother & wife:" Why would you not want to just get them tested to get it over with and not have to deal with the drama? ... [snip!] ... the baby daddy drama. Also if you receive any child support or help from him. He can stop paying because you won't prove it."
Quoting nikkigoodbear:" Becuase i don't get why i have to prove myself to him, he knows they are his he knows what was done ... [snip!] ... and if he wants to stop paying child support he can. he made my life hell and i don't want anything to do with him "
Quoting Lin Brown:" I can understand some reasons why you would want to keep the kids from him, but just because you guys ... [snip!] ... have a problem with getting them tested and he can fight for them to at least get visitation as long as his name is on the BC "
Quoting Lin Brown:" I can understand some reasons why you would want to keep the kids from him, but just because you guys ... [snip!] ... have a problem with getting them tested and he can fight for them to at least get visitation as long as his name is on the BC "
Quoting A mother & wife:" Because if you are giving him the name of a Father. He does deserve to know. it doesn't matter if he ... [snip!] ... If not why are you being so bad vindictive? I hope he straightens up and stops paying your ass or takes your ass to court. "
Quoting nikkigoodbear:" my prob is he know they are his, this is just another way he wants to control my life. He don't care ... [snip!] ... he wanted me to abort. He is just mad beucase i left him and have a PO on him this is just another way he wants control over me"
Quoting nikkigoodbear:" This baby won't have his last name and i want to get my son last name changed he don't deserve to have ... [snip!] ... child support the court ordered him to do so, i don't need nor want his money he could stop paying today and i wouldn't care."
Quoting nikkigoodbear:" my prob is he know they are his, this is just another way he wants to control my life. He don't care ... [snip!] ... he wanted me to abort. He is just mad beucase i left him and have a PO on him this is just another way he wants control over me"that still isn't a reason to keep the child from seeing his grandparents. My dad didn't know my sister existed until she was 4 because he met my mom and I wasn't able to meet my sister until I was 19 and the first time she met our dad was on her wedding day because of how selfish her mom was. If my dad was given the chance to sign the BC you bet your ass he would have done anything possible to see her no matter what it took. Just because those kids come out of your vag, does not give you the right to keep them from their family. Those kids are just as much his as they are yours, how would you feel if he was doing that to you? that isn't controlling you, that is a man that is trying to fight for his kids and obviously he wants to be in their lives since he is wanting a PT so he can fight for them. That is what a real man does, just because he wasn't there for you, doesn't mean he shouldn't be able to be there for his kids.
Quoting A mother & wife:" If he signed the birth certificate you can't change his name. The state that I am in if you receive ... [snip!] ... you in your place. Stop being a childish mother. You do realize those kids will grow to hate you for what you are doing. ".
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