Fml

SO was out all night last night at a concert. Whatever he deserves a break, I was here with DSD, DSS and DD. I just asked him if he could pick me up from a friends house Thursday night and he EXPLODED at me because I have to be here when DSD and DSS get dropped off. First of all, I didn't know they were coming a day early so I could've been told in a normal way... Second of all, why can't they just get dropped off later? And his rationale is that I would be cutting his time with his kids... If I have to be here so they can get dropped off earlier.. No I'm not cutting HIs Time with the kids, it's my time with them. I know their mom could drop them off later.. I haven't seen any of my friends or even been out of the house since November.. I don't know when the balance in our relationship got so smurfed up..

His response when I say I need to see my friend. I need a break "she doesn't pay any bills"


Smurf you dude

Personally I'd tell him to get over it, amd I'd go see my friend.

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm actually a virgin:</b>" Personally I'd tell him to get over it, amd I'd go see my friend."</blockquote>



That's what I'm doing. This is the last straw for me

I mean you should respect each other, but communication sounds like an issue in in your relationship. It might be best to try to have a conversation about it, but if he's going to be a dick, let his ex know when you'll be home, amd go enjoy yourself too.

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm actually a virgin:</b>" I mean you should respect each other, but communication sounds like an issue in in your relationship. ... [snip!] ... have a conversation about it, but if he's going to be a dick, let his ex know when you'll be home, amd go enjoy yourself too."</blockquote>



He's being a nut. I have literally done everything for the kids for the past two years, every dollar I have goes to them, every spare minute goes to them... I have put so much love and affection into our family, to act like me going out and delaying their arrival by two hours is selfish is totally crazy. It makes me wonder what's going to happen when I'm in school...

<blockquote><b>Quoting Cheeks mom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'm actually a virgin:</b>" I mean you should respect each other, ... [snip!] ... their arrival by two hours is selfish is totally crazy. It makes me wonder what's going to happen when I'm in school..."</blockquote>




Do you have other issues in your relationship or does he just feel like you're required to be a sahm.

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm actually a virgin:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Cheeks mom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'm actually ... [snip!] ... Do you have other issues in your relationship or does he just feel like you're required to be a sahm."</blockquote>


We just talked for hours. For the most part things are wonderful between us, but sometimes he gets too angry over little things, and tonight it was over something that really, really was unacceptable to me. And he did apologize for it... But I told him that he needs to not let his anger get the best of him, ever. And that I won't stay in a relationship where I can't do the things I need to do for myself. He is very supportive of me going to school or getting a job, but was a total smurf head tonight. I love him to death, and I know he is equally devoted to me... I think we're both just stressed and both need to find more balance in our lives. Tomorrow we go and pick up his motorcycle, which is great because then I'll have more access to the car and more independence.... So that mixed with the confidence going to school will give me, will hopefully prevent this from happening ever again

glad you 2 got to talk things over