When does friendship/flirting cross the line?

When do YOU believe that "innocent" flirting crosses the line into inappropriate?

Also where do you think that friendship crosses the line into flirting


DH and I were having this conversation and I just am curious as to what you ladies think!

I had this conversation earlier today as well! I'm curious too.

When it makes you uncomfortable.

Ive been in this situation tooooooo many times. Uncomfortable.

When you say things that you wouldn't feel comfortable with your SO knowing.

For me, I think if I wouldn't act that way in front of DH then it's crossing a line.

When it becomes uncomfortable

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jalen's mommy:</b>" For me, I think if I wouldn't act that way in front of DH then it's crossing a line."</blockquote>




 

When you say or do something you wouldnt do in front of your SO or their SO.

Or if someone were flirting with me when I would become uncomfortable. Seriously though people arent nice anymore I feel like I get asked out after being nice to someone and they think I was hitting on them. Its weird.

for me i would say innocent flirting is just making jokes and having a conversation!!! when it starts crossing the line would be hinting to hook up ! my SO is very friendly and is always cracking jokes and some women take it as flirting and some dont as long as he doesnt try to hook up i dont care!!

If I wouldn't say it in front of DH, or if I would get angry for him saying it to someone else, I wouldn't go there. I try to avoid things like that all together though. It gets awkward for me really quick, even if I know they are joking. :/

If your deleting text or you wouldn't want your SO seeing you doing what your doing.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jalen's mommy:</b>" For me, I think if I wouldn't act that way in front of DH then it's crossing a line."</blockquote>


This

If you have to hide it, it isn't appropriate.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jalen's mommy:</b>" For me, I think if I wouldn't act that way in front of DH then it's crossing a line."</blockquote>




Idk if I agree with this.
I'm super flirty and outgoing. It takes a lot to make me "hide" something. So I could cross a line and not even know it personally. I let DH tell me how far he is comfortable with and to shut me up if I take something too far with someone else.
I wouldn't ever actually kiss/touch someone other than DH but I would joke about it and such. I've crossed others lines though and feel really bad. I just have no filter. I'm getting better at it though.

To me, flirting is never "innocent" What's the point if it's not a means to an end?

You flirt with people you are attracted to and/or interested in.