Quoting Baking #3 *21weeks*:" SO before I we became preganat I gave DS #2 crib to my brother and his GF. It was pretty much brand new ... [snip!] ... like he did the first time. Thier baby is not using the crib yet (he is 4 months so still in their room) What would you do?"If she's not using it, don't see a problem.
Quoting Devil Duckie:" Sorry, i think when you give something to someone, you are letting it go. It doesn't matter if they are using it or not, you gave it to them. It was a gift. Yes, I think its very rude. "This is my thought. Its theirs now and either get the one from your sister or buy a new one but dont ask for something you gave someone else back.
Quoting JiLLiAN.:" Ask your sister for hers."
Quoting Baking #3 *21weeks*:" Thanks ladies, I don't think it's that big of a deal either but my sister's said it would be rude. I ... [snip!] ... rude. I mean it's the exact same crib, I just want mine because it's newer and their is nothing wrong with my sister's crib."
Quoting Baking #3 *21weeks*:" I can have that one but we bought ours brand new and it's was only used for a while along with the mattress so that's why I want ours back. Ugh it souds so petty when I say it like that! :/"Because it is. You gave it to them so now its theirs.