re: Does it

Quoting 1inpink2inblue:" you want to know the worst part of the shower thing is that 9x out of 10 he takes one as soon as he get ... [snip!] ... getting a shower first because he ALWAYS jumps in there right before I get the chance. KNOWING I have smurf to do that day."

I just started unlocking the door and letting her in haha

Quoting Vivian [♥]:" my husband does all of that, but it's not to hurt me in any way. He's just got a few selfish tendencies ... [snip!] ... hold it. Ya, no, my 3 year old is not going to hold it for 4 minutes. I just started unlocking the door and letting her in haha"

I could probably let the bathroom thing go but that is how everything is. Its all about him and what he wants end of story and if I try to voice my opinion than I am a crazy bitch and he will go out of his way to hurt me by doing or saying whatever he can to do that.

Quoting 1inpink2inblue:" I could probably let the bathroom thing go but that is how everything is. Its all about him and what ... [snip!] ... my opinion than I am a crazy bitch and he will go out of his way to hurt me by doing or saying whatever he can to do that. "

why are yall still together?

Quoting Vivian [♥]:" why are yall still together?"

Lots of reasons like the fact that when I told him I wanted to work he bitched me out and told me no and that I didn't love my kids if I wanted to work. So I don't have a job and he never would put me on the bank account so I have no money. Then the fact that i have no where to go and he burnt a lot of bridges of people that would have been willing to help me before won't now because of him. I left last week and was gone for a week but I ran out of money and options so i had to come back and he said he wanted me to come back. But his actions sure the hell haven't shown that. We are suppose to go to marriage counselling this coming friday but I really don't know if it will even do any good at this point.