Quoting The Doctor:" You're not wrong or stupid, no matter what decision you make, but I think you should sort out your feelings ... [snip!] ... before worrying about your SO. Would you only want to keep the baby if your SO was around, or would you feel the same way?"
Quoting October Rust:" I would keep the baby even if he wasn't around. We weren't together for awhile when I was pregnant with ... [snip!] ... the thought of being a single mother wouldn't scare me. It would be a lot of hard work, but I know I could do it if I had to."
Quoting The Doctor:" Then it's 100% your decision to make. Yes, it would be hard if he decided he didn't want to be involved... ... [snip!] ... him, listen to what he has to say if he can talk without just demanding... but in the end, it's up to you. <3 Good luck."
Quoting October Rust:" Thank you! <3 I hope maybe after I get through my clinicals and can actually start working some he'll ... [snip!] ... start working some he'll see that things may not be so bad. I want to keep this baby, I just don't want him to hate me for it."If you want to keep it then do just that. Aborting a baby you want will most likely make you hate this male and yourself for doing it.
Quoting 6 blessings so far....:" You say you dont want him to hate you for it.....think of the resentment you will have for him if you ... [snip!] ... he say to his daughter? Would he look her in the face and tell his precious little girl that he wouldnt support her decision?"
Quoting October Rust:" That's definitely a good point! I'm going to sit him down to talk about it later this week (I've got ... [snip!] ... this week (I've got an exam on wednesday I'm stressing over right now so I want to wait till after I take it to talk to him) "
Quoting 6 blessings so far....:" please keep us posted ! "
Quoting ~The Lunar Flower~:" In the end it is YOUR body. If you don't want an abortion then you don't have to have one regardless ... [snip!] ... it, could you raise the baby without your DH? I'm not saying he's going to leave but it is something to take into consideration"