Quoting Spoonful of Jayson:" Do you have kids with a large age gap in between? OVER 5 years, like...6+ years apart. How is it? Do ... [snip!] ... of "helper", or hate the thought of having a little brother or sister they have to share time with? Do YOU enjoy the age gap?"Saturday my baby boy turned 7 months and today is his big brothers 10th birthday. It was never planned to have a big age gap between them but in the end it has been well worth it. My oldest (aka Sweetpea) loves his little brother (aka Turkey Butt). Turkey Butt's first word or babble was ba bubba ba. Every time my oldest walks into the room his little brother is all smiles and laughter. They have such a great relationship so far. I love that I was able to devote all my time and energy to my first one and will be able to do the same for this one. It's like having another only child but not if that makes any sense.