Quoting 1inpink2inblue:" I haven't an probably never will even if I decide I don't want any more kids. But I don't think it is ... [snip!] ... he really wants one and you don't. If you both feel really strongly about this issue then you probably shouldn't be together."
I don't think it's fair to either of you really. It's something that should have
been talked about but obviously what's done is done and now you are connected by your unborn child so time to figure it out right? (shoulda coulda woulda!) I would go with a good long term BC, you could have a change of heart. Who knows really, maybe he
will end up not wanting another one later. Do what you want though, if he decides he wants more children then it will be up to him whether or not he wants to leave your relationship to start another family elsewhere. You SHOULD NOT do something you do not want to do, especially since it could lead to you resenting that child and him. (if you were to have another one to satisfy him) Good luck mama!!