Bumming me out..

DD was suuuper close to me. Attached like no other. SO works 4 ten hour shifts per week with 3 days off. During those 3 days, I would have her mostly. Do everything and he would of course help, but I was more hands on than him. Well she would SCREAM with him. And once I grabbed her, she was good again...


SO has been off 4 days this week and I had him be a little more hands on. Plus I picked up some more hours and now the roles are switched.. HE can only comfort her, make her smile, blah blah. Wtf? Will there EVER be a happy medium? Where she can be happy with us both? Breaks me heart....  


I want her to want me again.

goodness i really cant believe how much we are the same, go through the same stuff, and our SO's are the same, in a way..

DD is the same exact way when DH has a few days off and is helping when he is home..it sucks that only he can make her happy most of the time..everyone says its just stages...well i hope so..

good luck momma