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He's probably bi-sexual. Just like I'm bi-sexual ... were you together when he was trying to hook up?

Some people dont know they are gay until after marriage and kids.

Quoting M O M M Y Y:" So I just found out my daughters father is secretely gay or bisexual, I was snooping threw his phone ... [snip!] ... this ever happen to anyone else on here??? And its not even like if hes JUST LOOKING AT GAY PORN HEA TRYING TO MEET OTHER GUYS."

I'm a firm believer that people are born gay. A lot of people don't believe this though. He was probably gay from the start and like most gay men try to hide it from the start and try to have a normal family and life. As smurffy as it sounds, you should really try and talk with him. It's a smurffy situation for the both of you

Maybe he was worried that his family or friends wouldn't accept him being gay, so he tried to suppress it.

Maybe he's bi.

Doesn't excuse the cheating, but it doesn't invalidate your relationship either. He could still be attracted to you.

Talk to him about it before you just kick him out.

Thats what I think that he is bisexual, yes we were together thats what gets me mad he wrote on his profile that "he wants to get smurfed" thats still cheating

Maybe he's bi? Maybe he's curious?

I agree with others, doesn't excuse cheating. But he probably is still attracted to you. I wouldn't leave my husband if I found out he was bisexual, but that's just me.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Little_Discourage:</b>" Maybe he's bi? Maybe he's curious? I agree with others, doesn't excuse cheating. But he probably is ... [snip!] ... But he probably is still attracted to you. I wouldn't leave my husband if I found out he was bisexual, but that's just me. "</blockquote>



I would if he was cheating on me. Just because he's looking for men doesn't make it any more acceptable.

Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Little_Discourage:</b>" Maybe he's bi? Maybe he's curious? ... [snip!] ... I would if he was cheating on me. Just because he's looking for men doesn't make it any more acceptable."

I didn't say it was. I didn't see her response about him looking for other men until after I posted, considering we posted at the same time.  

I tryed talking to him he doesn't want to talk to me hes the one who said hes picking up all his stuff tomorrow. Hes so mad at me just because I found out he just kept name calling me and telling me he hates me .. and I didn't even come at him in a wrong way . I guess I shudve known once I found a gay cg ar line number but he had an excuse for every thing

<blockquote><b>Quoting Little_Discourage:</b>" I didn't say it was. I didn't see her response about him looking for other men until after I posted, considering we posted at the same time.  "</blockquote>




She stated it in the op.

Quoting M O M M Y Y:" I tryed talking to him he doesn't want to talk to me hes the one who said hes picking up all his stuff ... [snip!] ... come at him in a wrong way . I guess I shudve known once I found a gay cg ar line number but he had an excuse for every thing"

Yeah, sounds like he knows what he's doing is wrong. I'm sorry.

<blockquote><b>Quoting M O M M Y Y:</b>" I tryed talking to him he doesn't want to talk to me hes the one who said hes picking up all his stuff ... [snip!] ... come at him in a wrong way . I guess I shudve known once I found a gay cg ar line number but he had an excuse for every thing"</blockquote>



  maybe he's embarrassed you found out and now he's lashing out?

I'm sorry you're going through this