Quoting M O M M Y Y:" So I just found out my daughters father is secretely gay or bisexual, I was snooping threw his phone ... [snip!] ... this ever happen to anyone else on here??? And its not even like if hes JUST LOOKING AT GAY PORN HEA TRYING TO MEET OTHER GUYS."
I'm a firm believer that people are born gay. A lot of people don't believe this though. He was probably gay from the start and like most gay men try to hide it from the start and try to have a normal family and life. As smurffy as it sounds, you should really try and talk with him. It's a smurffy situation for the both of you