My Story
posted 9th Feb
Here’s my story about irregular menstrual cycles, when I was 9 years old I had my first cycle. But here’s the kick at that time I stayed with my grandma in Portageville MO and I was riding my bike and hit my private area trying to stop the bike later that day I went to the bathroom and I was bleeding I told my grandma about it so she got me some pads and called my mom in St.Louis my mom said it just sound like I came on my period so a few days later the bleeding stopped. After that I came on three months later after that I realized my cycle was irregular sometime they would come late or I wouldn’t have one at all I could never pin point a date I expected my cycle . When I was 16 years old I became sexually active My mom always told me when I was ready to let her know so I came to her and asked here can she take me to get birth control or condoms she turned me down because then she was religious and to her since she was a Christian doing that just made her feel like she’s giving the right to have sex .the guy I was with we were just having unprotected sex…in the middle of December I found out I was pregnant and I didn’t have nobody to run to but my mom was out of town only one I could run to was my aunt and my grandma they were behind me 100% After new year’s I woke up from a painful cramp so I woke up and went to the bathroom and realized I was bleeding heavily so I went and got some clothes and a paid and jumped in the shower called my aunt we went to the hospital they told me I was having a miscarriage I wasn’t that far alone they couldn’t do much so they sent me home and I was in pain for weeks cramping real bad along with horrible back pains and passing clots after that horrible experience it finally stopped and went to go get a DNC which hurt so bad. After that my cycles never been the same it came to a point that I went from having period to 3 a year. When I turned 18 I went to an obgyn finally I diagnosed me with amenorrhea and put me on Provera that help me have one period that month but the next month nothing so I tried birth control it worked but I start having really bad cramps taking them and it didn’t help me have a cycle but I started gaining weight so I stop taking them ,when I was 18 I met a guy we were together for two years we decided we wanted a child but I didn’t know how that was going to play off because I knew I didn’t have a cycle without that I couldn’t have a child so in February I had a cycle and the next month I found out I was pregnant three weeks later I had another miscarriage so after that I just decided all together I didn’t want to try anymore so things started going down the drain complications with my fiancé so we ended that relationship and went our separate ways I moved to St.Louis needless to say that 5 months later I met a wonderful man that’s dear to my heart someone I love so much that’s good to me and let me just say I’m happily married and we realized, we were ready to have a family and didn’t have normal cycles he knew that could be fixed and we wanted to fix the problem now, so I decided to do some research so I got on baby gaga and started talking to some of the lady’s on there and this is what I found out try taking rash berry leaf tea 3 time a day and then take vitex every day at least twice a day then after that my cycle should come right away so now I’m ready to see how everything goes so far and hoping for our BFP
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