twins..

I went in today to have the required ultrasound prior to an abortion and found out it is twins..unsure of how I'm feeling..any thoughts, stories, or advice? would this change your mind?

Quoting Gone 12345....:" I went in today to have the required ultrasound prior to an abortion and found out it is twins..unsure of how I'm feeling..any thoughts, stories, or advice? would this change your mind?"

I wouldnt get one in the first place(not judging). But IF i were you, Yes it would change my mind. You were given a beautiful gift.

Quoting Cali's mama  :" I wouldnt get one in the first place(not judging). But IF i were you, Yes it would change my mind. You were given a beautiful gift."

 

awww. That must be a really difficult decision. TWINS. I would keep them, but i am not in your shoes or situation. Can't you give them up for adoption?
TWINS!!

I think if you were already planning on having an abortion you did so knowing it was the best choice for you and your family. And te number should not change that.

If you were unsure of raising one child, wouldn't two make it that more difficult?

Oh wow. That's a surprise! Seems like it adds to both sides.. why to and not to... good luck.

Honestly? No it would make my decision easier. I personally wouldn't be getting an abortion in the 1st place but if I was it would be because (for whatever reason) I couldn't keep it. So therefore I definitely couldn't keep two, Kwim?

But on the other hand idk why (not that I need to know) why you are getting one in the first place. If you are doubting it i would say give it some time and think it through.

Quoting 3.24.10 ♥ 9.10.11:" If you were unsure of raising one child, wouldn't two make it that more difficult?"

This

why I was going to have an abortion was because hubby and I are living separately but are working on our issues and so far so good..we both have really good jobs so we can afford it...I guess I'm just feeling like they are a blessing and I'm not sure how I feel now

Quoting Jenna+1:" Honestly? No it would make my decision easier. I personally wouldn't be getting an abortion in the 1st ... [snip!] ... to know) why you are getting one in the first place. If you are doubting it i would say give it some time and think it through."

 

Quoting Gone 12345....:" why I was going to have an abortion was because hubby and I are living separately but are working on ... [snip!] ... have really good jobs so we can afford it...I guess I'm just feeling like they are a blessing and I'm not sure how I feel now"

If you are unsure give it some time.

But I don't see how one is not a blessing, but two is?

Definitely think it through if you're having doubts. What does your hubby think?

Quoting Gone 12345....:" why I was going to have an abortion was because hubby and I are living separately but are working on ... [snip!] ... have really good jobs so we can afford it...I guess I'm just feeling like they are a blessing and I'm not sure how I feel now"

How far along are you?

Quoting Bubba Monster's Mommy:" I think if you were already planning on having an abortion you did so knowing it was the best choice for you and your family. And te number should not change that."

I agree.
OP if you were planning to terminate one, you must feel that you can't care for that child. So it seems like twins would just be the same problem times 2.
best of luck.