re: twins..

<blockquote><b>Quoting 3.24.10 ♥ 9.10.11:</b>" If you are unsure give it some time. But I don't see how one is not a blessing, but two is?"</blockquote>




I think all pregnancies are a blessing and something great..but I understand circumstances can make it not a possibility...I guess I'm just feeling like naturally conceiving twins is not super common and maybe I'm making the wrong decision..I was unsure of the abortion before I knew it was twins

<blockquote><b>Quoting Two Princesses:</b>" I agree. OP if you were planning to terminate one, you must feel that you can't care for that child. So it seems like twins would just be the same problem times 2. best of luck."</blockquote>



not that I can't..I just felt like timing could be better

Quoting Gone 12345....:" why I was going to have an abortion was because hubby and I are living separately but are working on ... [snip!] ... have really good jobs so we can afford it...I guess I'm just feeling like they are a blessing and I'm not sure how I feel now"

I would feel like they were some kind of strange blessing also.

Quoting Gone 12345....:" why I was going to have an abortion was because hubby and I are living separately but are working on ... [snip!] ... have really good jobs so we can afford it...I guess I'm just feeling like they are a blessing and I'm not sure how I feel now"

In this situation, my best advice is to talk with your husband. See how he feels.

Quoting Gone 12345....:" <blockquote><b>Quoting 3.24.10 ♥ 9.10.11:</b>" If you are unsure give it some ... [snip!] ... twins is not super common and maybe I'm making the wrong decision..I was unsure of the abortion before I knew it was twins"

Ok, I was reading it as because it's twins it's a blessing, otherwise it wouldn't.

because you have doubts, I would wait. Don't do anything you think you will regret. Do you have a support from other family, and friends?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Gone 12345....:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting 3.24.10 ♥ 9.10.11:</b>" If you are unsure give it some ... [snip!] ... twins is not super common and maybe I'm making the wrong decision..I was unsure of the abortion before I knew it was twins"</blockquote>



You are the only one who knows what's right. If you feel all pregnancies are a blessing and you were unsure about abhorring in the first place, I would say don't do it. At least not yet. Give yourself time to think and feel it all. I know it's hard but if things are going well with your husband so far and you can afford maybe keeping them is the best? Again, I'm not you and can't say. Only you can good luck with whatever you decide.

<blockquote><b>Quoting 3.24.10 ♥ 9.10.11:</b>" Ok, I was reading it as because it's twins it's a blessing, otherwise it wouldn't. because you have ... [snip!] ... have doubts, I would wait. Don't do anything you think you will regret. Do you have a support from other family, and friends?"</blockquote>


tons of support

Quoting Gone 12345....:" <blockquote><b>Quoting 3.24.10 ♥ 9.10.11:</b>" If you are unsure give it some ... [snip!] ... twins is not super common and maybe I'm making the wrong decision..I was unsure of the abortion before I knew it was twins"

If you can't care for one, two isn't going to be easier. However, It just might sway my own personal decision. I was hoping for twins this pregnancy.

since you're unsure, I'd wait maybe a week and really think about it. Ask family and friends (if you have any) and see if maybe this is the universe's way of saying "hey! this is meant to be." I'm not anti-abortion, so please don't take that the wrong way. You have to do what is best for you and the babies, and if abortion is it, then find peace in your decision.

Quoting Gone 12345....:" <blockquote><b>Quoting 3.24.10 ♥ 9.10.11:</b>" Ok, I was reading it as because ... [snip!] ... anything you think you will regret. Do you have a support from other family, and friends?"</blockquote> tons of support"

After reading everything I would also say you should think about it longer and talk to your husband. I'm getting the vibe you don't really want to.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Devil Duckie:</b>" If you can't care for one, two isn't going to be easier. However, It just might sway my own personal ... [snip!] ... the wrong way. You have to do what is best for you and the babies, and if abortion is it, then find peace in your decision. "</blockquote>

I can financially and emotionally care for twins...I was going to have the abortion because the timing could've been better

If you are having doubts I would really think about it longer. It's a very big and difficult decision. Best of luck to you.

Quoting Gone 12345....:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Two Princesses:</b>" I agree. OP if you were planning to ... [snip!] ... be the same problem times 2. best of luck."</blockquote> not that I can't..I just felt like timing could be better"

If you had doubts about doing it before it was twins, I would think very carefully. Talk with your husband.
Sometimes timing can be really inconvinient[sp?]. For example, my fiance was in a relationship for 5 years. They TTC for over a year unsuccessfully
. Then he found out his sperm count is 120 which is low considering average sperm count is around 20 million I think.
Him and I had only been having sex for two or three months when I became pregnant with his child. We talked about abortion and ultimately decided to keep her.
However, I did have an abortion almost 4 years ago, and I have no regrets.
It's not an easy choice, but once you do decide it will take a huge load off.
Whatever you decide, we are here to support you. Best of luck.

If you were having doubts about the abortion in the first place, you can finacially and emotionally handle it, things are getting better with dh, you have great support and you think twins is some sort of blessing then i think u have answered your own question... seems like the only con u have descibed is timing!! talk to ur hubby see how he feels about two!

If it was me and i was in ur situation i would keep them.

Quoting **mummyX2.5**:" If you were having doubts about the abortion in the first place, you can finacially and emotionally handle ... [snip!] ... descibed is timing!! talk to ur hubby see how he feels about two! If it was me and i was in ur situation i would keep them."

This!

if i believed in abortion for myself (totally pro choice btw) twins would confirm that i was going ahead with the abortion to be honest..

i couldnt deal with two newborns at once.