Well I left my husband a month ago and so far I have gotten my kids on a bedtime schedule and an eating schedule I am so excited. It is so nice to not have someone constantly going against everything I have to say. They are also so much better behaved. I never realized how much of a difference it would make.
I also put my 1 1/2 year old back to rearfacing so then my 3 year old got jealous. So they are now both rearfacing