re: So sick (rant)

<blockquote><b>Quoting The Doctor:</b>" I'm sorry to hear that, but it's better that they're out now instead of when she knows them and then ... [snip!] ... them and then they decide they don't want to be involved. I know it hurts, but just keep loving your baby and doing your best."</blockquote>




Exactly, that's how I feel about it. And I will she's my world and that's probably why this upsets me so much.

my oldest sons bio has only seen him once when he was a month old. hes now 3. his dad doesnt call or anything and neither does anyone else in his family. it sucks but you cant force someone to be a part of your childs life.

<blockquote><b>Quoting B&Js Mommy:</b>" my oldest sons bio has only seen him once when he was a month old. hes now 3. his dad doesnt call or ... [snip!] ... or anything and neither does anyone else in his family. it sucks but you cant force someone to be a part of your childs life."</blockquote>




It wouldn't bother me if they were up front about it but no they play games like its not my child that their smurfing with... I rather have them not be involved to be honest.

I know how it feels. My mom has only seen my daughter once and it was the day she turned 8 months. You have told them they are more then welcome to be in your child's life. That's all you can do. I know it's hard. All you can do is be there and love your child. They will either be there or they won't. That's their choice.