re: My dumbass SIL

Quoting Supafly★:" Okay I'm glad I'm not the only one that was like    . It seems like she wants one because she ... [snip!] ... that's prevalent in Poland more than here. Sigh. It's her body and her choice but she's such a freaking selfish person. "

She'll have her c-section and then bitch to you a few days later about how much pain she is in.

Quoting Angel [Mariah's Mommy]:" She'll have her c-section and then bitch to you a few days later about how much pain she is in. "

Oh that's all we're going to hear about for a year. "I can't believe I went through that. I can't believe you're doing this to me - I had surgery." And then somehow it will be BIL's fault lol.

Quoting Supafly★:" Wants to get a c-section because her doctor told her since she wears contacts, it might damage her eyes ... [snip!] ... in my right eye. And I gave birth naturally twice. I pushed for over 3 hours with my first. My eyes are fine. *Shrugs.* "

my sil delivered 3 naturaly and wears nothing but contacts and she is about to deliver her 4th.. Thst dr sounds a quack to me.. I had a friend whose dr told her that she had to have a c section bc her baby was almost 8lbs. dr.'s now a days are kind of stupid. Some of them talk to you loke your stupid also. Dr.'s charge more for a c-section so he probably just wants more money from her insurance company (if she has insurance).

She sounds like my sister. She wanted one with her 4th kid.   To make it easier on her. LOL How the hell is that easier?

Quoting hendry1123:" my sil delivered 3 naturaly and wears nothing but contacts and she is about to deliver her 4th.. Thst ... [snip!] ... also. Dr.'s charge more for a c-section so he probably just wants more money from her insurance company (if she has insurance)."

Mine was over 8lbs lol

Just told DH and he says yes, he's heard of it and it's a legit reason.


But he's also in love with her so I don't believe him either lol.

Quoting Supafly★:" Wants to get a c-section because her doctor told her since she wears contacts, it might damage her eyes ... [snip!] ... in my right eye. And I gave birth naturally twice. I pushed for over 3 hours with my first. My eyes are fine. *Shrugs.* "

Wowwww....does she have other kids? I mean what the hell kind of reason is that for having a C-section? I can't say she is the only stupid one, my ex-friend said she wanted one because her baby was big and it would be better recovery...psh that is so not true...but some of us we have to over look. If she wants to allow a C-section because of her eyes then well she does sound a little *no comment  *

Quoting Supafly★:" Wants to get a c-section because her doctor told her since she wears contacts, it might damage her eyes ... [snip!] ... in my right eye. And I gave birth naturally twice. I pushed for over 3 hours with my first. My eyes are fine. *Shrugs.* "

lmfao omg.. that's the dumbest smurf i've heard...today.. lol i wear contacts and i was able to push my two out fine & my eyes are still intact. bahaha. i will def deliver my third vaginally as well.. csections give drs more money.. of course he wants to do one... there's a hospital here that only does c sections and they give every reason possible.. my besties mom had three c sections there, my bestie had one and will have another, my sil had one and will have another and my mom had one , as well as my neighbor.. i've never met one person who delivered vaginally at that hospital.. ever.. needless to say, i avoid that hospital.

Quoting Due w/ a little boy!:" Wowwww....does she have other kids? I mean what the hell kind of reason is that for having a C-section? ... [snip!] ... we have to over look. If she wants to allow a C-section because of her eyes then well she does sound a little *no comment  *"

Yeah, she's a dumbass. I mean, it's one thing to blindly listen to a doctor. I know a lot of people do that. But she does not want to even try and push.

No, first kid.

I think that is the silliest thing I've ever heard.  

Quoting The ℰffin' D!™:" I think that is the silliest thing I've ever heard.  "

SIL and BIL stopped talking to me. Okay, cool but who you gonna call at 3am when the baby is crying and he won't latch and WTF is wrong with my nipples and does this kid ever sleep?! Yup. I asked DH when we can go to Poland if we can make the visit to them short and he agreed, thank goodness.

Quoting Supafly★:" SIL and BIL stopped talking to me. Okay, cool but who you gonna call at 3am when the baby is crying ... [snip!] ... ever sleep?! Yup. I asked DH when we can go to Poland if we can make the visit to them short and he agreed, thank goodness. "

They'll come crawling back. I'm sure.

Quoting Supafly★:" Yeah, she's a dumbass. I mean, it's one thing to blindly listen to a doctor. I know a lot of people do that. But she does not want to even try and push. No, first kid. "

Well does she know other people who've had them first hand? Maybe they can tell her what recovery is like and all the pain and see if it scares her any. Hell that is a pretty selfish reason though. Is she young?? I mean I am 18 but I don't care how much my eyes would mess up from pushing my recovery is more important. I can keep wearing glasses for all I care. Lmao off I hope she learns her lesson from this!

Quoting Due w/ a little boy!:" Well does she know other people who've had them first hand? Maybe they can tell her what recovery is ... [snip!] ... my recovery is more important. I can keep wearing glasses for all I care. Lmao off I hope she learns her lesson from this!"

She said her mom got one with both her kids. But her mom is even more awful than she is. She's not that young, she's 26 or 27.

Quoting Supafly★:" She said her mom got one with both her kids. But her mom is even more awful than she is. She's not that young, she's 26 or 27. "

That sounds like something someone young would say O.o. The girl I compared her to (not my sister the friend) well she had her C-section yesterday and is talking about how bad she hurts because the pain meds aren't touching her pain. I hope your SIL grabs some sense before they try to give her one.