Quoting Danielle: Jack&Basil'sMom:" Its not like he said you have a stank pussy or something. You said he does it anyway ... does he such at it? Is he not worth helping and teaching him what you like?"

lol thats half my problem is i take it offensively because ive never had anyone not like to do that lol kwim?

and no.. he doesnt suck at it at all.. but knowing that he doesnt necessarily want to be doing it is aturn off, and then were both frustrated because hes doing something he doestn really want to be doing and i cant enjoy it because all im thinking about is he doesnt want to be doing it

the worst part is his solution is to say well then i dont have to do it to him.. but i like to do that, and he obviously likes it when i do.. soo...

i just cant be pleased i guess :/

Oral sex is of extremely low importance in what I want out of a relationship.


No.

I've only been with one guy where I actually enjoyed oral.

Ive had some guy friends in the past tell me that they just don't like Going down on girls. It might not even be you.

He's the one missing out on getting you really turned on.

I don't like sucking dick but I do it.

If my husband divorced me for it, I'd punch him in the balls!

Quoting Danielle: Jack&Basil'sMom:" I don't like sucking dick but I do it. If my husband divorced me for it, I'd punch him in the balls!"

lmao.

it has to do with getting used to a new person i guess.

i was with the same person since i was 17. its all i knew practically.

things are just different. not all bad different tho  

Quoting Ailey+Lennon+Renner's Mom:" if your SO doesnt like to go down on you. he will, but doesnt like to.... says he just never "loved ... [snip!] ... to" youve never had this issue with anyone before so you know its not you. he gets you off just fine in other ways"

I stopped going down on my wife because I loved going down on her, but she NEVER liked to go down on me. I miss it, but when I literally went down on her well over a thousand times and she's only ever gone down on me 10 times(yes, 10). It's terrible. I like to give, BUT the ratio was WAY off to be considered anywhere near fair. And I DO like to receive. That is why I can't just overlook it.

If your relationship is strictly sexual, yeah.. otherwise, no, not a deal breaker

Quoting JohnSilverSmith:" I stopped going down on my wife because I loved going down on her, but she NEVER liked to go down on ... [snip!] ... BUT the ratio was WAY off to be considered anywhere near fair. And I DO like to receive. That is why I can't just overlook it."

um but your married to her? and im not about to stop doing something i enjoy because he doesnt do it back. thats kinda stupid and just punishing myself lol

Defanitly would not break my relationship.

I love oral, but after about a few seconds of going down on me, DH has to stop because he says he 'tastes copper' no matter what time of the month it is. He says all women taste like that to him, so he can't do it. He's attempted to go down on me twice in 5 years.

Quoting Ailey+Lennon+Renner's Mom:" um but your married to her? and im not about to stop doing something i enjoy because he doesnt do it back. thats kinda stupid and just punishing myself lol "

How is that? I like it, but it doesn't rule my day.

Quoting JohnSilverSmith:" How is that? I like it, but it doesn't rule my day. "

you like it but you dont do it because she wont do it. its selfish and immature. if you like to do it, do it. i dont see the point in NOT doing it because she wont reciprocate. i dont WANT him to do something he doesnt want to do... i just wish he wanted to.. lol

Quoting Ailey+Lennon+Renner's Mom:" you like it but you dont do it because she wont do it. its selfish and immature. if you like to do it, ... [snip!] ... doing it because she wont reciprocate. i dont WANT him to do something he doesnt want to do... i just wish he wanted to.. lol "

I do like it. How is it fair to give and never receive? That is not selfish and immature, that's being equitable. If you give and give and give.....but never receive, that is MORE than mature. You just get to a point where you realized that you'll always be the one to give in to the needs of the other. That gets......old.

Quoting JohnSilverSmith:" I do like it. How is it fair to give and never receive? That is not selfish and immature, that's being ... [snip!] ... just get to a point where you realized that you'll always be the one to give in to the needs of the other. That gets......old."

I have to agree with him on this. I love my husband and would never break my marriage just because of lack of oral. However, I have given DH head a countless amount of times, and he's tried twice and hasn't even really gave it a go. And I'm not about to force it on him that he HAS to do it. But it hurts my feelings that I can try and do everything I can to please him, but he doesn't even try to please me. After a while, its just kind of a downer.

Quoting Gizmo ♥ Bry:" I have to agree with him on this. I love my husband and would never break my marriage just because of ... [snip!] ... can try and do everything I can to please him, but he doesn't even try to please me. After a while, its just kind of a downer. "

Thank you. It's not like I gave up after one or two times. I LITERALLY went down on her over a THOUSAND times! She went down on me ten times and gagged almost every time and stopped after less than a minute. It makes you feel like you're disgusting. I'd never been with anyone other than her and she told me that the thought of giving head disgusts her.

She's been with someone else before me and I asked her how that should make me feel when I went down on her? Should I be completely grossed out knowing that my mouth had been where another man's dick had been before my mouth? Should I feel completely disgusted? Her answer was "no, it was only one guy and I'm clean." I told her that I didn't ask her that. She refused to answer. Being equitable. That's it. I'm not asking for her to build Noah's Ark. It makes me feel like I'm a scummy dirtbag when she thinks that going down on me (a virgin when we met). I don't like the though of what has been inside of her where I put my mouth. I think that this is highly hypocritical on her part.