Quoting Minion:" I'm sorry for your loss. My friend had a baby with anecephaly. She decided to go ahead and force labor at 19 weeks."
Thank you, and I wasn't even given the option to force labor (I'm guessing that's something the doctor offers you..?) but I don't think I'd have been able to do it even if I was given the option. I don't regret my decisions though, it was hard but definitely worth it in the end.