Quoting 624582:" This all seems like too much work for a smurf buddy, if that's what you really want. When I wanted sex, ... [snip!] ... remotely intimate. Just smurfing. And when I saw them in public I would either wave or act like I didn't know them, lol."
Quoting whitney ♥ ainsley:" Honestly, I just got out of a really smurffy relationship where we were together for almost 5 years, ... [snip!] ... and I don't want more than that. I like cuddling and kissing, I'm an intimate person. There's no romancey feelings with D. "
Quoting Red Bottom:" What it seems like to me You haven't gotten over what happened to your ex. You feel a void where he ... [snip!] ... BUT when he comes off as rejecting, it hurts you like it's your ex hurting you. You're setting yourself up for problems. "
Quoting whitney ♥ ainsley:" It doesn't hurt me though, because he's not rejecting. He just keeps bringing up feelings, and how he ... [snip!] ... living with someone one day, and then they're not even allowed to talk to you the next, it makes it hard to get closure. "
Quoting whitney ♥ ainsley:" We're friends though too. Have been for years. I like intimate. I can't just have sex with random dudes, ... [snip!] ... sort of connection there, and with him we can hang out and eat, and watching stupid tv, or we can smurf, and it's not weird."
Quoting Red Bottom:" If you have a restraining order, there's obviously something that happened that should give you more ... [snip!] ... blah blah blah. You're the one focused on feelings and reading into things. How you're not seeing this makes no sense to me. "
Quoting 624582:" Well that is where I differ. I had sex with a close friend with it in mind that is was just going to ... [snip!] ... became awkward. Mainly because I knew he wanted more. I mean have those things become awkward? If not, I don't see the issue."
Quoting whitney ♥ ainsley:" Not at all. We have a movie night planned tomorrow night with a bottle of tequila and some bread pudding. ... [snip!] ... over and hang out, spend the night because I'm not going to let him drive home drunk, and then he'll go home in the morning. "
Quoting Red Bottom:" So who's going to be watching his daughter?"