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Why don't employers like pregnant people?!!!

posted 8th Feb
I went for an interview today and she called and said I got the job!!! I was to be there at 1 on Monday. I told her I wanted to be honest with her ( I would want to know if I was an employer) that I was 16 weeks pregnant if she couldn't tell ( I am huge I look 30 weeks...2nd pregnancy). She all of a sudden got really weird and awkward. She said let me call you right back and let you know when you can take your drug test. I knew she was lying due to her acting really strange. So she said call me after 9 on Monday and I will let you know because the women is gone. I said okay. She does not want me to come in at 1 now on Monday. I feel llike she is discriminating against me because I am pregnant. It is not a hard job and not a physical job. So I just don't know if I still have the job or what lol...Confused? ha...sorry had to vent!!!!
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I'm due July 21st (a girl), have 1 child & live in Tennessee
posted 8th Feb
thats illegal!

but i wouldnt have told her until i actually started
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I have 1 child & 4 angel babies & live in Hollywood, Florida
posted 8th Feb
Quoting Beanie's Breeder:" thats illegal! but i wouldnt have told her until i actually started"




   
it is illegal and i would not have said a word about my pregnancy until i had to.
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I have 2 kids & 2 angel babies & live in Heustreu, Germany
posted 8th Feb
Dang, that sucks. You should of waited to tell her...
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I have 2 kids & live in Fucking, Austria
posted 8th Feb
Because they dont want to be liable for anythign that happens to you. AND they dont want you to work while pregnant and say that you are going to come back after 6 weeks and dont.
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posted 8th Feb
She's probably check on benefits and maternity leave. She didn't tell you you got it and then tell you you didn't. I wouldn't jump to conclusions so quickly.
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posted 8th Feb
Quoting Beanie's Breeder:" thats illegal! but i wouldnt have told her until i actually started"

THIS!

Ugh, I'd be fuming.
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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Grand Haven Charter Township, Michigan
posted 8th Feb
I wasnt going to tell her but I am huge so I dont see how she couldnt tell...I wanted to be honest with her because I would want to know if I was hiring someone pregnant. I would still hire them its not like its anything bad. I guess being honest gets you nowhere!
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I'm due July 21st (a girl), have 1 child & live in Tennessee
posted 8th Feb
Yes that's illegal but hard to prove. Employers don't like to hire pregnant women because they spend time and money to train, and hire them for a position that they will likely only be able to fill for a short period of time before taking time off for the baby. There is logic behind them not wanting to hire you but it is smurffy and yes illegal.
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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Plentywood, Montana
posted 8th Feb
honestly i would of waited until the "probationary" period was over.. my job wasnt really happy when they found out the week after they hired someone she was 5 months pregnant and had to go on light duty.. i doubt they would of hired her
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I'm due May 8th (a boy), have 1 child & live in Modesto, California
posted 8th Feb
Out is illegal. File a complaint with the EEOC. They will take your info and look into it.
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I'm due August 11th & live in Mississippi
posted 8th Feb
Quoting Cjmason:" I wasnt going to tell her but I am huge so I dont see how she couldnt tell...I wanted to be honest with ... [snip!] ... if I was hiring someone pregnant. I would still hire them its not like its anything bad. I guess being honest gets you nowhere!"


its commendable that you were honest, but not everyone else is like that hun
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I have 1 child & 4 angel babies & live in Hollywood, Florida
posted 8th Feb
She said she needed to call the insurance and I told her I have insurance through my husband and she said okay then I wont need to call. I did not have to tell her but I felt like I needed to. Just because someone is pregnant does not mean they are lazy and going to hide until the baby comes out.
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I'm due July 21st (a girl), have 1 child & live in Tennessee
posted 8th Feb
You shouldn't have said anything. Very illegal but very easy to get around.
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I have 1 child & 3 angel babies & live in Windsor, Ontario
posted 8th Feb
Quoting Beanie's Breeder:" its commendable that you were honest, but not everyone else is like that hun"

I know not everyone is honest. It is a job that I could even do from home after I had the baby until I came back.
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I'm due July 21st (a girl), have 1 child & live in Tennessee
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