Quoting Mama♥Breezy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting mamaluvsher4babies:</b>" My other children already know how ... [snip!] ... future...and it is ectopic. Would you really choose to die for a non viable fetus and leave your living children motherless?"
Ectopics are not
a death sentence like they lead us to believe.
From the American Academy of Family Physicians....
To date, at least 14 studies have documented that 68 to 77 percent of ectopic pregnancies resolve without intervention. Unfortunately, no markers clearly identify which subset of patients has self-limited disease.
So while *I* wouldn't wait it out - I am not going to dog anyone who does based on moral/spiritual convictions. It makes no sense for me to support a woman's right to choose & then not also support the choices I wouldn't make. It also should be mentioned that there have been a number of (although statistically RARE) cases of ectopic babies surviving long enough to be born & be healthy. I *think* they have all been in OTHER locations. I am not sure there has ever been a tubal pregnancy that went far enough for viability, but the major organs like liver & intestines can potentially support a placental attachment. Weird but true.