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I'd be smurfing livid.

would be VERY upset!

I can't stop crying. This sucks so smurfing bad. I don't know what to do.

Um, it definitely sounds bad. Especially if he is guarding his phone.

Yeah, screw that.

Been there. Never again.

Smurf that! I'd confront him about it for sure. And go through his phone while he sleeps. He's given you good reason to.

Before you confront him though, take SS of everything.

Me too.... that's out of line completely.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Loka Lokita (17):</b>" I can't stop crying. This sucks so smurfing bad. I don't know what to do."</blockquote>




Talking to him about it is a start .... See how he reacts when u bring up the subject about what u found ....actions speak louder then words

Smurf that smurf. Confront him. Don't put up with the bullsmurf. You deserve so much better.

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Definitely not ok. You have every right to be upset. Like someone else said-gather this stuff up and then sit down and confront him with it.

I would ask him what his history was with this girl. If his story sounds sketchy or doesn't add up, I would leave immediately. You have every right to be pissed.

It seems like once they get caught they try to turn everything on you. Don't let him do that. I'm sure every excuse possible will fly out of his mouth. Be smart and don't let him fool you.