Quoting Loka Lokita (17):" I texted him the screenshots and said that he can go be with those girls...and he said "U have no life". ... [snip!] ... why I am obsessively insecure. I knew the fact that I was obsessed with the thought of him cheating on me meant something."

  Smurf that smurf. Please don't put up with that any longer.

Quoting BeginTheRomance:" Yeah, screw that. Been there. Never again. "

Yeah me too.. Been there done that, been there AGAIN and done that again.. and never ever again. lol.

Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" Yeah me too.. Been there done that, been there AGAIN and done that again.. and never ever again. lol. "

Thank God we left those messes, huh? Lol.  

Wow if that's how he reacts when you confront him, then that is not a man who respects you. You have no reason to ever feel like you did anything wrong. Lots of guys try to turn it on you when they get caught.

Quoting BeginTheRomance:" Thank God we left those messes, huh? Lol.  "

First one left me.. and second one.. after I found out all different smurf, I was OUT. ahaha... Id rather be single than go through that smurf ever again.

I would be very upset and angry!!

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Honestly...
I get the impression that if he's not cheating yet, it may not be long until he starts. And even if he is just flirting, I would never put up with it and neither should you. He obviously has no respect for your feelings here and if he doesn't care if you're hurting then why should he care if he cheats? I personally recommend running far far away from him. Better to be single then always wondering if he's getting some on the side. No one needs to feel crappy.

Quoting Loka Lokita (17):" I'm scared to even ask...but does it sound like he's cheating then? Or maybe just being a little too friendly...."

Um no, it sounds like he is straight up cheating.

Quoting Lilly'smommy5:" Honestly... I get the impression that if he's not cheating yet, it may not be long until he starts. ... [snip!] ... far far away from him. Better to be single then always wondering if he's getting some on the side. No one needs to feel crappy."

Agreed.

Quoting £egendary £ex:" Um no, it sounds like he is straight up cheating."

This.

Never EVER let your gut opinion up. I had a feeling my youngest bio dad was cheating and I was completely right. He lied about EVERYTHING.

I'm sorry you're going through this OP  

Id kick his ass to the curb.. You don't need that smurf!

I guess I'm gonna go get my kids from daycare and try to pay for a hotel   I start my new job on Monday so hopefully I can pull my own until I have more than just 1k saved up...

I am so sorry OP. I would not know what to do in your position either. I hate that you are having to deal with this.