Well this is weird.

So this guy I've known for about half a year, is a friend of mine, he has a serious girlfriend. We used to work together and have really good talks just about life or our relationships. I just got out of a serious relationship, but I was dating my ex whenever I became friends with this guy. He's a really genuine person, I told him thanks for being a genuine friend to me and listening to my smurf. He told me that I was one of the most sincere people he's ever met and that I'm probably the most awesome girl he knows (he said his girlfriend is top by default). Now I'm pretty sure he meant to come off as a friend saying that, and I'm not taking it as any "signals" or anything. But I kind of feel like if our situations were different, and I hadn't been with my ex and he hadn't been with his girlfriend, that we would've made one kick ass couple. I can talk to him better then friends I have had for years. And no, I'm pretty sure he's not trying to get into my pants (that would be impossible anyways, we live far away ) I've already had that thought and tried to read into it, but that's not what he's doing. My ex thought that he liked me in the past, but we were honestly just good friends. I discontinued talking to him for a while, but recently started because I moved back to my hometown and he was just asking what was up. I feel kind of weird about the situation, but I'm of course not pursuing anything, I actually like his GF! She's really nice! I guess just if the situation was different then we probably would have made a pretty good couple. Am I weird or wrong for thinking these kinds of things?

How would you feel if you were in a serious relationship and you found out someone was talking to your boyfriend like you talk to him? It might suck, but whatever feelings you may have need to be put away. Even if he did leave his current girlfriend for you, you would then have to worry about him doing the same to you eventually

I had a friend like that years ago, and I often felt like we would have made a pretty good couple, too. BUT I always reminded myself that the ease of communication is way different when you're just friends. Becoming a couple has a tendency to change, and sometimes even ruin, the previous relationship.

Quoting Cheeks mom:" How would you feel if you were in a serious relationship and you found out someone was talking to your ... [snip!] ... Even if he did leave his current girlfriend for you, you would then have to worry about him doing the same to you eventually"

I don't even really like him at all. I just think if our lives were completely different then we would've fit pretty well together. That doesn't really make sense haha. I would not want to break up their relationship or anything--like I said I like his GF. Ugh maybe I'm just feeling this way because I just got out of a relationship. I could be in "fragile, I want someone to want me" phase.

Quoting Rabbit™:" I had a friend like that years ago, and I often felt like we would have made a pretty good couple, too. ... [snip!] ... when you're just friends. Becoming a couple has a tendency to change, and sometimes even ruin, the previous relationship. "

Very very true. Maybe it's just nice that someone is letting me know how nice they think I am that it's flattering. My ex just always brought up stuff that I did wrong. That could be it too.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lana Del Rey:</b>" I don't even really like him at all. I just think if our lives were completely different then we would've ... [snip!] ... I'm just feeling this way because I just got out of a relationship. I could be in "fragile, I want someone to want me" phase. "</blockquote>




I totally get that. Maybe see if you can get out for a night with your girlfriends and use that energy in a more positive way, like getting free drinks? You don't want to accidentally screw up what sounds like an awesome friendship

Quoting Cheeks mom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Lana Del Rey:</b>" I don't even really like him at all. I just ... [snip!] ... a more positive way, like getting free drinks? You don't want to accidentally screw up what sounds like an awesome friendship"

That's for sure. I wouldnt want to do that. I honestly dont want to be in a relationship for a really long time. Maybe I'll meet someone else like that one day, who IS available but also thinks the same way about me. Free drinks are always a plus! I like free anything  Thanks for listening. I could just be really confused right now.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lana Del Rey:</b>" That's for sure. I wouldnt want to do that. I honestly dont want to be in a relationship for a really ... [snip!] ... me. Free drinks are always a plus! I like free anything  Thanks for listening. I could just be really confused right now. "</blockquote>



I've always found that free drinks and girls nights make a break up seem much more fun lol... It goes from being "oh I'm lonely" to "hooray I'm single!" Which is always nice