Quoting SAFFY™:" Ohh. I was going off your thingy at the bottom. Do you have any girlfriends you could hang out with ... [snip!] ... the day? Or maybe talk to his boys and tell them that their dad needs some alone time and tempt them with a day trip somewhere?"
Yeah, I have a few friends I could call up and possibly do something with. Honestly though, I think I would enjoy the alone quiet time by myself. Nah, he would go ape smurf crazy if I took his boys for the day lol with no real reason. He is like super anal about wanting to be with his kids as much as possible. I don't think it's a bad thing. But that's where I told him we lack in our relationship. We never just go out and do something together, without the kids. He said he does NOT want to do anything without the kids, if he can help it. That he wants all our kids more. He hates the fact when my girls go to their dads/grandparents, because he wants that time with them during the weekend, because he doesn't get to spend enough time with them during the week because of school/work. I mean don't get me wrong I am so so so so grateful to have a man like that. But I really need some one on one, no kids allowed, alone time with him sometimes. I NEVER get a mental break from kids. If I don't have all 5 of the kids all the time, then I have at least 2-3 of them, NON-STOP!