<blockquote><b>Quoting JoeyN "babycarrot":</b>" No! They were both really upfront with me that they would continue to date other men. I still talk to one of them often she finally found a decent guy."</blockquote>




Oh ok

Quoting momma melissa85:" Does penis size matter to you? It does to me. I think anything under 8 inches long and about 5.5 inches ... [snip!] ... do I deal with this? Plus I can't help but think if I do have a son with him, he will have a small penis. What do i do? Help!"

Get a smaller vagina..
Geezus... There are more important things in life than a big cock.

It matters SO much more about what they can do with it.. different positions etc.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Monkey Nuts:</b>" Get a smaller vagina.. Geezus... There are more important things in life than a big cock. It matters SO much more about what they can do with it.. different positions etc. "</blockquot


That would make sense coming from someone who gets off being a bitch. You probably don't even need any dick....

Geezus....you don't have to be a bitch all the time. You can smile and make a regular comment sometimes

Quoting momma melissa85:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Monkey Nuts:</b>" Get a smaller vagina.. Geezus... There are ... [snip!] ... even need any dick.... Geezus....you don't have to be a bitch all the time. You can smile and make a regular comment sometimes"

yeah, but she has a point. I would dump him for his own good. Let him find a woman who does not have a big vagina. Think about it, not all men are the same, and neither are women. Just a look at the responses shows this to be true. Some women need a bigger man to feel satisfied, while others report that big was not better, it hurt. So do him a favor, cut him loose so he can find a woman who will actually appreciate him for everything he is.

Women always bitch about wanting a man who loves her for who she is, but then some of us nit pick everything about a man. For instance, a friend of mine isn't exactly a beauty queen, and she finally had a great guy come into her life. A real step up guy. She was reluctant to take it to the next level though because he doesn't have a pretty smile. Everything else about the man is perfect. He's a good man and good men are hard to find...very hard to find, and all she can do is whine about his teeth not being perfect. Face it, women are worse than men in this area. We want it all. We blame men for being shallow, and too picky, but men aren't a fraction as picky as we women are. We literally look for reasons to disqualify a man. My friends don't like him. He is a blue collar type. his teeth aren't perfect. He has thinning hair.

Oh, but let him mention the cottage cheese on our ass and suddenly he's the anti-Christ.

I now understand why my husband's best friend is now searching in Brazil for a wife. He now has it narrowed down to three women and they are all beautiful, in shape, educated, and adore him to pieces. And he told my husband he loves that they are affectionate even when they are mad.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Robbie104:</b>" yeah, but she has a point. I would dump him for his own good. Let him find a woman who does not have ... [snip!] ... in shape, educated, and adore him to pieces. And he told my husband he loves that they are affectionate even when they are mad."</blockquote>


How do you know she has a big vagina?? Did I miss something here??

Quoting ℳizz ℊiz. :" <blockquote><b>Quoting Robbie104:</b>" yeah, but she has a point. I would dump him ... [snip!] ... affectionate even when they are mad."</blockquote> How do you know she has a big vagina?? Did I miss something here??"

Given the size she listed as required to feel pleasure, she is either big or into pain. The sise she listed excludes about 95% of men. Very few men are 8 inches long or more and 5.5 inches in circumference.

A review published in the 2007 showed the average erect penis length to be 14–16 cm (5.5–6.3 in) and girth to be 12–13 cm (4.7–5.1 in). The paper compared results of twelve studies conducted on different populations in several countries. Various methods of measurements were included in the review.

Similar results exist regarding studies of the circumference of the adult fully erect penis, with the measurement taken mid-shaft. As with length, studies that relied on self-measurement consistently reported a significantly higher average than those with staff measuring. In three studies of penis size where measurements were taken in a laboratory setting, the range of average penis circumference when erect was 3.5 to 3.9 inches (8.9 to 9.9 centimetres)


Soooooo....clearly her own statement leads one to believe that she is also not average. In the same way, a woman who says it is painful with a very large man can be assumed to not be on the bigger side of average.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Robbie104:</b>" Given the size she listed as required to feel pleasure, she is either big or into pain. The sise she ... [snip!] ... In the same way, a woman who says it is painful with a very large man can be assumed to not be on the bigger side of average."</blockquote>




Well my husband is 8" and about 5 around and I am actually very small down there. It's called kegels. Not to mention the vagina can become accustomed to a certain penis's shape, length, width, etc during sex (with the help of lube if needed) and afterwards go back to it's pre-sex tightness. Plus with kegels you can become even tighter. I do understand that there are some penises that their size would more properly validate your statement, like ridiculous porn star stuff.... And I'm not disagreeing with you that size isn't everything. And that some girls are too picky. I agree there. Because there is much more to love and relationships than penis size. More important things matter. So I agree there. Just the way you stated that seemed kind of harsh. And you implying that she has this super huge loose vagina is kind of rude in my opinion. Especially because that may not even be the case. The way you worded everything just seemed a little unnecessary.

To me honestly it doesn't matter I was with a guy who was 10 inches and he tore me plus he thought his size was everything and didn't have good rhythm behind it, my husband is on the smaller side at 6 inches but that man can work wonders! The smallest man I was with was 4 inches and to be 100% honest he is still one of the best I have had. Try different positions I find for me that laying on my side knees to chest is good for smaller men also doggy style is great! Also focus on oral if you both enjoy it (me for one not a big fan of receiving it) Good luck he sounds like a good man

Quoting ℳizz ℊiz. :" <blockquote><b>Quoting Robbie104:</b>" Given the size she listed as required to feel ... [snip!] ... my opinion. Especially because that may not even be the case. The way you worded everything just seemed a little unnecessary."

I respect your opinion, but I think you might have carried over some of what the other person said to my post because this is what I said:

"yeah, but she has a point. I would dump him for his own good. Let him find a woman who does not have a big vagina. Think about it, not all men are the same, and neither are women. Just a look at the responses shows this to be true. Some women need a bigger man to feel satisfied, while others report that big was not better, it hurt. So do him a favor, cut him loose so he can find a woman who will actually appreciate him for everything he is."

I don't see anything about big and floppy there. ;) Just that if it is a big deal to her, then she is likely one of those women that are just big down there. As you said, a woman can adjust to the size of a man...normally, but if she can't find pleasure with a man who is average in size, then something is wrong. Maybe it is just in her head. Who knows, but I feel sorry for the guy if she feels this strongly about it. If she has a heart, she would break it off with him and just simply make an excuse that puts it all on her. Like, "I am just not ready to settle down, but if I were ready, you would be my first choice."

<blockquote><b>Quoting Robbie104:</b>" I respect your opinion, but I think you might have carried over some of what the other person said to ... [snip!] ... excuse that puts it all on her. Like, "I am just not ready to settle down, but if I were ready, you would be my first choice.""</blockquote>




Ya well maybe I took it in the wrong tone. Lol it's hard to really tell in text. But ya. I think if she thinks it is something she knows she will NEVER be able to get past and make work (even though everything else about him is perfect) then maybe he's just not the one for her. Because I know when you KNOW someone is the one for you, the little things that can bother you (no pun intended lol) should still not be a deal breaker. Because that is what most relationships are about. Loving someone despite their flaws.

What it comes down to really is not whether any of us think size matter. It's whether or not she can get past it and give it a try. Is the rest of who he is as a person and potential boyfriend worth it to her to find ways past this situation?? That's what it comes down to. If she thinks he is worth a try (despite size) then she has her answer.

To the OP, good luck!! I really hope everything works out.  

Quoting ℳizz ℊiz. :" <blockquote><b>Quoting Robbie104:</b>"Because that is what most relationships are about. Loving someone despite their flaws."

Exactly!!! Look, I know there are men out there that are total losers, but the fact is, we women have been pretty rough on our men, as a group. I know some men are just plain fed up with it. We women whine that we want a man to "love me for me." But we do not love them for them. This is how many that I know feel. Both men who are single and those who are divorced or widowed. One is on the verge of marrying one of three women he met in Brazil through a site called BrazilCupid.com.

These are not poor girls looking for a ticket to the U.S. In fact, they wanted him to move there. They are educated professionals. One is a federal prosecutor, one is a nurse, and one owns her own business. All of them have a Bachelors or better. In fact one has a Masters, and one has a PhD. Unlike American women, they don't care that he is not college educated. He is going to school at night and has achieved an AA degree with honors. American women he has talked to are unimpressed, but these women are. He is smitten with all three, and is quickly winning over our other single male friends. Some of the women are open to the idea of moving here, but most prefer staying there in Brazil. All three of these women have stated that they may be open to moving here but are nervous because they would have to go back to school and start over. The youngest of the three is more open to that idea. If I remember right, these women are 40, 38 and 30. He is 42. You might assume he is most interested in the 30 year old, but the truth is, his favorite is the 40 year old who is the prosecutor. The 30 year old is his 2nd favorite. But what he did note is that no 30 year old American woman who was as accomplished and as beautiful as this girl would even give him the time of day. Yet this 30 year old is gaga for him. Her goal is for them to eventually be able to live in both countries. She is not looking for a ticket to the U.S. She, like the other two first tried to convince him to move there, and to finish his education on the internet.

After seeing how these women treat him, I can't say that I blame him, or our friends, who are also now considering this as an option.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Robbie104:</b>" yeah, but she has a point. I would dump him for his own good. Let him find a woman who does not have ... [snip!] ... in shape, educated, and adore him to pieces. And he told my husband he loves that they are affectionate even when they are mad."</blockquote>




Lol I get your point but I didn't say I wasn't willing to deal with his small penis.I said I was willing to deal with it bc he is a good guy. It is not that his penis is small, its that we had sex twice and I was not satisfied at all. I assume bc of the size but i honestly dont remember him being able to "work it". So if sex is bad a person should stick around bc the other person is a good one? If you read the whole thread, i also asked for suggestions on how to make it better. The last guy I was with had an exteremly small penis and it actually hurt bc it hit my insides at a funny angle. He actually said I was much tighter after I gave birth.

There are lots of women who prefer large penises.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Robbie104:</b>" Given the size she listed as required to feel pleasure, she is either big or into pain. The sise she ... [snip!] ... In the same way, a woman who says it is painful with a very large man can be assumed to not be on the bigger side of average."</blockquote>




Lol may I ask what race? Um bc I've only had sex with black men and all but two were over 8 inches. I never said I didn't feel pleasure at all from a smaller penis. I said that was the size I prefer and am used to. A smaller penis seems to hit me at angles that hurt even in various positions. A bigger penis doesn't.

Honestly most girls who polled I assume are white with white men to judge.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ℳizz ℊiz. :</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Robbie104:</b>" Given the size she listed as required to feel ... [snip!] ... my opinion. Especially because that may not even be the case. The way you worded everything just seemed a little unnecessary."</blockquote>




I agree and if size was everything to me I would not even consider giving him a chance. I have flaws just like him, probably more. I am willing to and looking for ways to deal with them and be happy.

I don't think the size is so important but I do want to be satisfied and I wasn't the first two times. Idk how to address the issue with him and not hurt Hus feelings or even if I should address it. Maybe just find ways to make sex better for us both.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Cherry Davis:</b>" To me honestly it doesn't matter I was with a guy who was 10 inches and he tore me plus he thought his ... [snip!] ... great! Also focus on oral if you both enjoy it (me for one not a big fan of receiving it) Good luck he sounds like a good man"</blockquote>



Thank u   good tips. I will Google sex positions for a smaller penis.

I guess a smaller one means it would be easier for me to give oral lol but Idk if he even does oral or not. Right now we are just at the dating stage. We haven't had sex for years.