Quoting ♫ boobook ♫:" I don't want to hide. Or change who he is. I do want him to be healthy. I don't care what other people ... [snip!] ... get educated or supportive. And not make me shoulder all the blame for things being the way they are. I hope that made sense."
Quoting ♫ boobook ♫:" That's what we do. He loves to help cook. And I have him in the kitchen as much as possible. I am REALLY ... [snip!] ... better. Eating and food are such a basic life need. It will be less stressful knowing he can meet those needs himself. KWIM?"i agree, i really hope they can help him.
Quoting Rette Mich:" I get what you mean. I wouldnt change mine anyday it just gets hard. And yes people blame me for it ... [snip!] ... that its just in my head and if I would quit it he'd finally be "normal". Meh screw them. Keep doing what you think is best."I know it gets hard. And it sucks when what other people say and/or do make it harder. Like that comment. That's messed up. Ignorance must be bliss.
Quoting ~Raylan's Mama~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ♫ boobook ♫:</b>" I have said so many things to her. ... [snip!] ... up! Maybe that could get it thru her head?! And then tell her if it happens again she's not going to be able to around him."That probably is what I should do. But I feel so bad to say it like that. :/ I think next time she starts in, I'm going to say, please don't encourage him to eat. He will listen to his own tummy signals. Our job is to provide him with food. It is up to him alone to eat it. And if she keeps it up we will leave or I will ask her to leave.