This makes my mommy heart smile

So went with LO's dad to DNA testing today there is a very slight chance she may not be his, please don't think i'm a slut I prefer not to go into details. However this man in these pictures has been my best friend througout the past 2 and a half years of college. He has a thousand reasons to be a complete jerk to me but he was so sweet today and on sunday when he got to see LO for the first time. He brought two of his friends with to see her and when our friend was holding her he said "My turn, my turn, I want to hold her!" His friend tried playing with LO's cheeks when R was holding her and R swatted his hands away lol he wanted her all to himself! Today he insisted on carrying her carseat the whole day, LO has an apnea monitor and he was great with handling it all carefully. He even held her while we were being tested at the DNA center and fed her. He just loves her so much even though he knows there is a possibility she may not be his. I just love seeing him with her.

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I'm just curious... How long does it take to get results back?

Good luck to you.

Quoting Jennasmommy :" I'm just curious... How long does it take to get results back?"

We get them next week they told us 2-4 days after they recieve the dna swabs from the lab we went through DDC because he didn't want to wait for the state to do the dna test so he paid for it to be done privately.

Quoting C's Mommy ✩:" Good luck to you."

Thanks  

So this isn't the one you were talking about the other day? Just trying to keep track. I mean the one trying to get you pregnant this time.

No i've explain my current SO is not DD's father. My current SO was trying to get me pregnant. This is DD's father (more than likely). He and I can't be together as a couple but we are best friends. Honestly this is a horrible thing to say but if I could be with R I probably would not be with current SO at all. However DD's father is from Saudi Arabia and he doesn't get to choose who he marries, his parents do so there is no future for us as a couple.

Quoting Miracle_Mommy 2012:" No i've explain my current SO is not DD's father. My current SO was trying to get me pregnant. This is ... [snip!] ... is from Saudi Arabia and he doesn't get to choose who he marries, his parents do so there is no future for us as a couple."

Ahh gotcha!

It's actually a really heartbreaking situation bc no man has ever treated me better than the man in these pics. I wish he had been born here in the U.S. not in Saudi Arabia. I wish we could get married and his parents would accept us. I pray he is DD's father and will ball my eyes out if he isn't. I couldn't ask for a better father for my LO. We have always had a very strong connection that anyone can see, i'm pretty sure the people at the DNA testing center assumed we were a couple because we were getting along so well and full of smiles today. It really is such a shame we aren't and can't be together. He always knows how to make me smile and laugh and when he left my apartment today I missed him the very instant he walked out the door.