Quoting shelbylynn [32 WEEKS!]:" I had my guidance counselor from my school call my mom and tell her when I was 16. I was too scared.... Might work for you too "
This is exactly what I did because the father and I were scared smurfless of my dad... and for good reason. as soon as the counselor told him, he got up and was like, "I'm going to cut your smurfing dick off". Ahahaha, good times.
OP, I was once in your shoes. If you have questions or need someone that has been there, feel free to PM me.