re: 15 and pregnant still havnt told my parent

<blockquote><b>Quoting speaktruth2powr:</b>" Hopefully, by taking responsibility for your actions, your are also considering all your options....a child is not a toy or a punishment for bad decisions."</blockquote>




 

Quoting aℓyssa™:" This is exactly what I did because the father and I were scared smurfless of my dad... and for good reason. ... [snip!] ... good times. OP, I was once in your shoes. If you have questions or need someone that has been there, feel free to PM me.  "

Lmao my mom punched the dad of that baby in the face the day I tried "running away" from home. I was such a little smurf.....

Quoting shelbylynn [32 WEEKS!]:" Lmao my mom punched the dad of that baby in the face the day I tried "running away" from home. I was such a little smurf....."

  It's seriously funny to think about back then. You think you're above every one else and nothing is going to get you..

Then years later, we realize how wrong we were.  

Quoting speaktruth2powr:" Hopefully, by taking responsibility for your actions, you are also considering all your options....a child is not a toy or a punishment for bad decisions."

This!!!

You need to tell your dad so you can see a doctor.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Morgan Sanders:</b>" Trust me, the longer you wait, the worse it and harder it gets. I'm 17 and pregnant, and tried hiding ... [snip!] ... than you, but its so much better to get it over with, because no matter how long you put it off you still have to tell him."</blockquote>




This! I was 18 when I got pregnant with my son. I wasn't even sure I was pregnant, I was texting a friend of mine & told her I needed to test. My step mother read my text messages & told my dad. I WISH I could have told him myself. It is scary & he may be upset, but I'm sure he will come around. And everything will work out for the best. Good luck!

The longer you wait, the more angry he might be with you. I know my mother was pissed that I didnt tell her I started having sex til a year later. Like everyone is saying, its best to get it done and over with so that child can get what it needs.

Quoting aℓyssa™:"   It's seriously funny to think about back then. You think you're above every one else and nothing is going to get you.. Then years later, we realize how wrong we were.   "

I couldn't have said that any better myself lmao.

Do it like Juno? Just go right out and say it. I have a really nervous sense of humor. So I start cracking jokes. Like no hospital can take me seriously because I constantly crack jokes about everything going on. Good luck OP.

You need to tell him ASAP so then you can get antenatal health care, also because you cant cope on your own.Good luck!

Well I wrote like a 20page letter to my mom and left it where I know she would find it and I went to school. The rest is history....she and my dad were pissed for a couple months and wouldnt tt me....but they came around and have been supportive since then I had my son a month before my 17th birthday now he is almost 8. You CAN do it!!

Quoting tayyy15:" Hi im 15 and pregnant and about 2 weeks ago i took a test and it came out positive at first i wasnt very ... [snip!] ... and idk how im gunna tell him :c hes gunna be devistated, no parent wants to hear that there 15 year old child is pregnant."

I found out i was pregnant about three weeks before my 17th birthday, i didn't directly tell my parents so i tried to hide it which lasted for about a week; after that there were issues at college and low and behold my mum just came out and asked me. So i had to tell her everything, and actually i was shocked at her reaction! I did not expect that good of a reaction from my parents at all but they have been so supportive, i mean emotionally they haven't really helped much but physically they have and realistically. They said they'll help support me, giving me all the old baby things, taking me to appointments at the doctors and hospital, making sure my diet and vitamins come with the shopping etc and plus they have the experience! It's so much easier after they get over it and accept it, it feels better too. Your dad will be able to support you, and if, god forbid anything bad did happen within the pregnancy at any stage then he will be the one able to support you because believe me you will not be able to cope on your own; it's a lot trickier than you think and you won't be emotionally or even physically stable. I hope nothing does happen but it's early days and you need to tell him now before he finds out another way; like my parents kind of did. x

Not going to lie he might be disappointed and hurt, but you have to tell him and get an appointment to get that baby checked. It's not just about you anymore you have another life to look after now.

I had the same problem...Im 19 but i have a VERY strict mother.So needless to say when i found out I was pregnant I would have preferred to go swimming with sharks then to tell her (seemed safer to me ) lol....I finally bit the bullet a few weeks latter and told her.OMG was she mad....but she got use to the idea and is now planning on being "the greatest grandma ever"......It wont turn out as bad as you think....hes your father and loves you...he will love his new grandchild too