Quoting AMN13:" Lol you don't have any idea how her home life is. She could have a very supportive family to help her ... [snip!] ... tell me to keep it and they would help me. Because that's what parents are suppose to do, support their child no matter what."
No, sweetie, a parent is supposed to support their child growing up, in school, but when it comes to a life choice like this, she is a child. She shouldn't be having a child. I would support my child through an abortion or adoption, but she wouldn't be keeping a child when she hasn't even graduated high school. I won't raise my grandbaby, I never made my mother and father raise my child and I won't raise my daughter's child.
And what kind of job is she going to get at 14, with no high school diploma? Not a very good one, that's for sure. Not enough to support herself and a child, because even if this was my child and she lived under my roof, I sure as hell would expect her to pay for what she uses, since she's making the adult decision of having a baby. Adult decisions come with adult consequences.