re: some ppl on here get me sick~!~

I really can't believe all the people saying at 14 the best choice is abortion.

Quoting AMN13:" I really can't believe all the people saying at 14 the best choice is abortion. "

I know, right? A fourteen year old would make a great mother. I mean, she can save up her allowance and buy the baby cute clothes to wear!

<blockquote><b>Quoting bbbt:</b>" I know, right? A fourteen year old would make a great mother. I mean, she can save up her allowance and buy the baby cute clothes to wear! "</blockquote>



 

Quoting AMN13:" I really can't believe all the people saying at 14 the best choice is abortion. "

At 14, the best choice is to do something other than play leap frog with teenage boys.

Quoting bbbt:" I know, right? A fourteen year old would make a great mother. I mean, she can save up her allowance and buy the baby cute clothes to wear! "

Lol you don't have any idea how her home life is. She could have a very supportive family to help her out. And you can get a job at some places at 14. If I got pregnant at 14 there is no way my parents would tell me to have an abortion, they would tell me to keep it and they would help me. Because that's what parents are suppose to do, support their child no matter what.

Quoting AMN13:" Lol you don't have any idea how her home life is. She could have a very supportive family to help her ... [snip!] ... tell me to keep it and they would help me. Because that's what parents are suppose to do, support their child no matter what."

And supporting my daughter's horrible life choices is telling her that an abortion would probably be the better decision.

And they'd probably agree with me since they're being raised to view abortion as nothing more than a procedure to rid themselves of an accidental pregnancy.

Quoting AMN13:" Lol you don't have any idea how her home life is. She could have a very supportive family to help her ... [snip!] ... tell me to keep it and they would help me. Because that's what parents are suppose to do, support their child no matter what."

You can't get a job at 14, and even if by some stretch of odds you could find a minimum wage gig, it would be nowhere near enough to support a child. That baby would become the grandparent's responsibility.

Quoting SAFFY™:" At 14, the best choice is to do something other than play leap frog with teenage boys."

I agree with you on this, I really don't think 14 yr olds should have sex. But if you are having sex, you know the consequences and I don't agree with everyone saying it's her best choice. Adoption could be just as good. Better in my opinion because it saves the baby. But to each their own.

Quoting SAFFY™:" At 14, the best choice is to do something other than play leap frog with teenage boys."

I'd rather them actually play leap frog then smurf!  

Quoting AMN13:" Lol you don't have any idea how her home life is. She could have a very supportive family to help her ... [snip!] ... tell me to keep it and they would help me. Because that's what parents are suppose to do, support their child no matter what."

No, sweetie, a parent is supposed to support their child growing up, in school, but when it comes to a life choice like this, she is a child. She shouldn't be having a child. I would support my child through an abortion or adoption, but she wouldn't be keeping a child when she hasn't even graduated high school. I won't raise my grandbaby, I never made my mother and father raise my child and I won't raise my daughter's child.

And what kind of job is she going to get at 14, with no high school diploma? Not a very good one, that's for sure. Not enough to support herself and a child, because even if this was my child and she lived under my roof, I sure as hell would expect her to pay for what she uses, since she's making the adult decision of having a baby. Adult decisions come with adult consequences.

<blockquote><b>Quoting AMN13:</b>" Lol you don't have any idea how her home life is. She could have a very supportive family to help her ... [snip!] ... tell me to keep it and they would help me. Because that's what parents are suppose to do, support their child no matter what."</blockquote>




I would support my daughter no matter what choice she made. But I would tell her abortion is the best choice and make her well aware of the fact that she wouldn't be dating, hanging out with friends, doing high school activities/clubs, or anything that normal kids do.
While I would watch the baby on occasion so she could have a break, she still would have no life and hardly any friends.

I got pregnant at 18, it's been extremely hard, and while I wouldn't change a thing, I want so much better for her. I at least got to enjoy my high school years.

Quoting AMN13:" Lol you don't have any idea how her home life is. She could have a very supportive family to help her ... [snip!] ... tell me to keep it and they would help me. Because that's what parents are suppose to do, support their child no matter what."

I would strongly encourage abortion,If my daughter got pregnant at 14!

Quoting LeTs*StArT*a*RiOt!:" No, sweetie, a parent is supposed to support their child growing up, in school, but when it comes to ... [snip!] ... pay for what she uses, since she's making the adult decision of having a baby. Adult decisions come with adult consequences. "

Yes, adult decisions come with adult consequences, like giving birth to a child. Will it be easy? No, but she made the choice to have sex. And being a parent is not just about supporting your child in school. If that's how you are I feel bad for your children, Sweetie.  

Quoting AMN13:" Yes, adult decisions come with adult consequences, like giving birth to a child. Will it be easy? No, ... [snip!] ... parent is not just about supporting your child in school. If that's how you are I feel bad for your children, Sweetie.   "

What do you know about being a parent? You are not a mom yet.

Quoting κατι:" What do you know about being a parent? You are not a mom yet."

Just because I don't have a child that isn't biologically mine, doesn't mean I haven't taken care of and raised kids. Are you saying if you haven't been a parent you don't know what they are suppose to do? My bad I guess since I don't have a biological kid, I don't know I am suppose to support them.