re: I can't believe him.

Honestly he is a great dad and hard working and a good husband. He just flew off the handle and I am trying to figure it out. Almost like he feels guilty about something or stupid about something and he brought out the tough macho guy instead of just admitting it?!? I don't know. I will see how he is when he comes back.

Quoting *Mac and Keagan's Momma*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Heeeeeey, Sexy lady. ;):</b>" OP is this normal behavior or ... [snip!] ... thinking maybe that has something to do with it but still. I think he felt stupid once he realized and he reacted negatively."

Then he most likely is frustrated. Doesn't make his actions right but I'd let him have his time alone and cool off. I know I didn't get any sleep last night and when DH asked if I could heat up something in the microwave I overreacted and was mean to him. I apologize after.

If he doesn't then bring it up tonight in bed or tomorrow morning. Ask him if he's feeling better and tell him that his actions towards you really hurt your feelings.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Heeeeeey, Sexy lady. ;):</b>" Then he most likely is frustrated. Doesn't make his actions right but I'd let him have his time alone ... [snip!] ... bed or tomorrow morning. Ask him if he's feeling better and tell him that his actions towards you really hurt your feelings. "</blockquote>




Yes I will. Thank you. I know I feel on edge after not getting a lot of sleep too sometimes. Just he really really caught me off guard.

Quoting *Mac and Keagan's Momma*:" Honestly he is a great dad and hard working and a good husband. He just flew off the handle and I am ... [snip!] ... and he brought out the tough macho guy instead of just admitting it?!? I don't know. I will see how he is when he comes back."

Mine will do that smurf ANY TIME he screws up or does something wrong and I bring it up >.< It is INFURIATING.

Wow Jen I'm so sorry he's acting that way! I'm sure there is a reason behind it, but it's still totally unfair! You work your butt off, I don't know how you do it! And you did it for months while you were sick as a dog and dealing with all the issues of your pregnancy with Declin. I really hope he came home and was calmed down and realized he was being unfair. He needs to keep in mind you're doing the best you can and you're trying to avoid surgery that would definitely make him take time off of work.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Tyler and AJ's Mommy:</b>" Wow Jen I'm so sorry he's acting that way! I'm sure there is a reason behind it, but it's still totally ... [snip!] ... in mind you're doing the best you can and you're trying to avoid surgery that would definitely make him take time off of work."</blockquote>




Thanks Mel. He came home and was quiet at first so I just let him be and finally he came and apologized to me and said he had a bad day at work and felt stupid for what he did and thought he was doing what was best. Today though he ended up having a snow day so he stayed home and helped a lot.

I told him instead of taking it out on me talk to me about it. He was super tired too though but still.

<blockquote><b>Quoting *Mac and Keagan's Momma*:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Tyler and AJ's Mommy:</b>" Wow Jen I'm so sorry he's acting ... [snip!] ... and helped a lot. I told him instead of taking it out on me talk to me about it. He was super tired too though but still."</blockquote>




I am glad he calmed down and apologized and i am glad he helped out. Everyone has a bad day sometimes and everyone blows up sometimes hopefully he will handle it better in the future.