Quoting CerealMakerWife♥:" Get an Attorney. He is clearly trying to bully you out of what you deserve."
Quoting MommaSav2:" Itf he wants to forgo his option to have legal council that's his choice, but you should not take that ... [snip!] ... make sure he isn't screwing you. It sounds like he is just trying to keep you from getting any of his savings or retirement."
Quoting [♥]Mrs. Morgan:" He can't control your getting an attorney. Protect yourself mama."
Quoting MommaSav2:" <blockquote><b>Quoting GiggleBellies:</b>" He hates my guts at this point for breaing ... [snip!] ... marital property and I would not trust someone who hates me to fairly separate our assets. You definitely need a lawyer."
Quoting A Beautiful Disaster:" We bought our house private and the homeowner was all offended when I got a lawyer. If Im gonna get ... [snip!] ... has money and children involved. Tell him he doesnt have to get legal representation, but you are going to, easy as that. "