Quoting MommyToWesley:" Do you have cable? Cut that out. Talk to DH about carpooling to cut down on gas. Do you have internet? ... [snip!] ... get a job at night, or vice versa. That way you wouldn't have to pay for daycare. There are almost always ways to make money."
I agree. Why have kids if you cant afford to feed them what they need for everyday life, for the first 9 months of age. I say 9 cause here in Canada whole milk is introduced at 9 months not 12.
At that age whole milk should not replace formula or bm at all. Most pedi wont allow the switch that young unless there is a reason for it.
My friends sister had to but her 6 week old baby on whole milk, cause of his tummy issues, he did fine on it actually, it was a trial basis since even the formulas for babies with reflux and GERDS and this other stuff they had to order that was 100 a case he couldnt keep it down, but the whole milk he could so under dr orders that what he had, she couldnt breast feed to to a doudle mastecomy (sp
But no Dr in there right mind would allow just whole milk at that age for no reasons and not because you cant afford it.