Quoting misanthrope:" I'm sorry. It's always hard letting the kids go to visit dad. If you have a good relationship with your ... [snip!] ... he took me up on it a few times when my daughter got overly upset. Best of luck with everything. Try to enjoy your down time."
Quoting mom2andrew&carter:" we live about an hour and a half away from each other and were not really on good terms but i would ... [snip!] ... drive anywhere if my kids needed me. im just not really wanting them to go but i know they need to spend time with their dad to"
Quoting misanthrope:" I totally understand. I've been divorced for about 2 years and it's still hard. I just try to keep busy, and enjoy getting solid sleep lol."