Quoting Jane.Doe.:" ugh I would not give into anal if he asked every night, i'd probably leave his ass. That is rude and ... [snip!] ... in a third person DON'T DO IT. That rarely works out even if both people want it :-\ Almost always screws up the relationship."

lmfao. I'm not a prude. Obviously, if he wants it bad enough he's going to ask and ask until I give him a strait no.

Quoting Ꭶwan♥Nemö:" HE wont do oral. smurf. Im just about willing to take this compromise but Im stubborn lol."

SO would not do anal. Absolutely not! But, I asked him enough and now he does! lol! I was seriously missing out.
It's always a lot easier if it's something like.. if you do this... I will do this.. ect ect!

id love to do anal but even just trying like a finger hurts. its been a fantasy of mine for a long time. im into submission haha. any tips?

<blockquote><b>Quoting I love Kenzi:</b>" id love to do anal but even just trying like a finger hurts. its been a fantasy of mine for a long time. im into submission haha. any tips?"</blockquote>


Have some drinks, get some lube and take your time.

Quoting Ꭶwan♥Nemö:" If theres something you generally don't do sexually and there is something your SO doesnt do sexually. ... [snip!] ... Pretty average really. We are just prudes. And just for fun, two internets to you if you can guess what these sex acts are  "

I'm up for pretty much anything if it'll make my partner feel good. sexually.. I expect the same from him. I'd never hold out.. to get what I want...

so.. that doesn't really answer your question.. but it's my answer.

Quoting Jane.Doe.:" ugh I would not give into anal if he asked every night, i'd probably leave his ass. That is rude and ... [snip!] ... in a third person DON'T DO IT. That rarely works out even if both people want it :-\ Almost always screws up the relationship."

it's not rude or disrespectful to ask for what you want. If a guy si putting a woman down, making her feel like smurf about it.. yea.. tha'ts a problem.

Quoting Ꭶwan♥Nemö:" thats the compromise. Ive talked him down to "Ill try and do it"...I didnt specify how far id try. He won't win this game. He has the easier part of the deal."

haha.. holy smurf. Ok... if a guy isn't willing to give oral when he wants anal.. I'd be pissed. I'm open to anything... but nto selfishness. tome.. that's ridiculous!

have you asked what his issue is? do you shave? does he just not like it? maybe someone made fun of him for being bad at it once? that's crazy

I despise anal, but I can do it if there is a LOT of lube. Just relax, literally relax it helps a lot...and maybe clit stim but I didn't have that when I did it. I told him if we did it again I'd have to, that would be the only way it'd be enjoyable for me. You can aslo buy anal desensitizing gels, but not sure how good they work

Quoting snglemama:" haha.. holy smurf. Ok... if a guy isn't willing to give oral when he wants anal.. I'd be pissed. I'm ... [snip!] ... what his issue is? do you shave? does he just not like it? maybe someone made fun of him for being bad at it once? that's crazy"

I feel like I'm the only person who doesn't like oral lol

Like it feels good but I can't help but feel weirded out that his face is in my vagina lol
I don't mind giving oral though and SO Loves it

Quoting ❥New Beginnings:" I feel like I'm the only person who doesn't like oral lol Like it feels good but I can't help but ... [snip!] ... good but I can't help but feel weirded out that his face is in my vagina lol I don't mind giving oral though and SO Loves it"

I HATE it. I was just putting myself in her position. It annoys me. I literally dry up when a guy tries to do oral on me.

Quoting snglemama:" I HATE it. I was just putting myself in her position. It annoys me. I literally dry up when a guy tries to do oral on me."

It is just too weird for me lol but everyone I know looooooooves it

I get a lil weirded out by oral, but I do love it. SO just won't do it though. Only time I get it, is if he is super drunk.

Quoting snglemama:" haha.. holy smurf. Ok... if a guy isn't willing to give oral when he wants anal.. I'd be pissed. I'm ... [snip!] ... what his issue is? do you shave? does he just not like it? maybe someone made fun of him for being bad at it once? that's crazy"

yeah hes weirded out by it lol. I told him to get over it, if you can put your PENIS in there and it comes out perfectly fine and happy, then so can your mouth. If I do it, you do it. I almost got him to do it last night. He got as close as my inner thighs  

But hey, this has turned into a game of who will give in first somehow. Sex life is way more fun now, so im not even mad  

Quoting Ladee+Grant+Lilly:" I despise anal, but I can do it if there is a LOT of lube. Just relax, literally relax it helps a lot...and ... [snip!] ... that would be the only way it'd be enjoyable for me. You can aslo buy anal desensitizing gels, but not sure how good they work"

yeah my clients says it works. Im a pure romance consultant, so I literally have a giant inventory of toys I can use. I might just buy myself some Booty Eaze...after I win this battle of course.

Quoting Ꭶwan♥Nemö:" yeah my clients says it works. Im a pure romance consultant, so I literally have a giant inventory of toys I can use. I might just buy myself some Booty Eaze...after I win this battle of course."

lol well now that it's turned into a game of "who will give in first" don't give in!