re: Telling DH and our parents I'm pregnant again.

Quoting BαƚMαɳ:" Well even if DH blows up, you already know your friend will support you. Hopefully he can be grown up about it though."

Yeah that's true. I think after he calms down things will be fine

Im having our third and hopefully last child.im going on 22 and SO is going on 25.it's hard sometimes especially since my kids are sixteen months apart.but im happy.i want to have my children young.i sincerely hope your husband won't be that mad since you know he finished in you.he should know the consequences of unprotected sex.i understand the family part my parents would probably be upset im not telling them until my wedding in March.i wanted to say around 12 weeks when i get my first ultrasound.only person who knows about my pregnancy is my SO.no friends nothing but the ladies in my DD group.good luck mama.

Quoting ❥New Beginnings:" Well I'd text him a pic of the test or something like the other lady said then. That way he has time ... [snip!] ... tell him first and as soon as you let him know THEN talk to your friend and let her know that way she can be there for support."

Just sent it to him...eeeek   so nervous right now

Quoting Aiden's Mommy   10/13/11:" Just sent it to him...eeeek   so nervous right now"

Let us know how it goes!

Congrats to you and regardless of your SO's initial reaction i'm sure he'll grow to be thrilled!

As for your LO same things will happen once baby is born They'll grow to love one another =)

Quoting Iyahna :^P:" Im having our third and hopefully last child.im going on 22 and SO is going on 25.it's hard sometimes ... [snip!] ... ultrasound.only person who knows about my pregnancy is my SO.no friends nothing but the ladies in my DD group.good luck mama."

Thank you   I kinda like being able to have kids young...like my parents. My dad said it was nice having kids young because once we were all grown up, he was still young enough to go out and have fun if he wanted. And a 2 year age gap is what I initially wanted but it didn't end up being very ideal in our situation. Oh well, it's happening!

Quoting ❥New Beginnings:" Let us know how it goes! Congrats to you and regardless of your SO's initial reaction i'm sure he'll ... [snip!] ... sure he'll grow to be thrilled! As for your LO same things will happen once baby is born They'll grow to love one another =)"

He accused me of cheating   said he didn't believe me because it's been a while since we've had sex (13&14 days ago to be exact) and he always pulled out. Now he's saying he doesn't believe me because he would have seen signs a month into it (wtf??? I'm only 4 weeks.)

It's going even worse than I thought.

Quoting Aiden's Mommy   10/13/11:" He accused me of cheating   said he didn't believe me because it's been a while since we've had ... [snip!] ... believe me because he would have seen signs a month into it (wtf??? I'm only 4 weeks.) It's going even worse than I thought."

thats smurffy lol it seems like he needs to be educated and that the month just start so obviously he will see "signs" soon

Quoting Aiden's Mommy   10/13/11:" He accused me of cheating   said he didn't believe me because it's been a while since we've had ... [snip!] ... believe me because he would have seen signs a month into it (wtf??? I'm only 4 weeks.) It's going even worse than I thought."

  I'm sorry. Thats crappy that he would accuse you of cheating.

Quoting Aiden's Mommy   10/13/11:" He accused me of cheating   said he didn't believe me because it's been a while since we've had ... [snip!] ... believe me because he would have seen signs a month into it (wtf??? I'm only 4 weeks.) It's going even worse than I thought."

Well that went left...  The hell is his problem? Maybe its just an initial reaction..

Quoting Aiden's Mommy   10/13/11:" He accused me of cheating   said he didn't believe me because it's been a while since we've had ... [snip!] ... believe me because he would have seen signs a month into it (wtf??? I'm only 4 weeks.) It's going even worse than I thought."

WTF? Well... I think now would be a good time for that friend chat.

I told him he could take my mood swings as a hint. This past friday I got so pissed over stupid dinner lol. I also told him jokingly a couple days ago I was having cramps and it was round ligament pain.

Quoting Aiden's Mommy   10/13/11:" He accused me of cheating   said he didn't believe me because it's been a while since we've had ... [snip!] ... believe me because he would have seen signs a month into it (wtf??? I'm only 4 weeks.) It's going even worse than I thought."

Aw, that's terrible. I hope his head clears soon.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Aiden's Mommy   10/13/11:</b>" Thank you   I kinda like being able to have kids young...like my parents. My dad said it was nice having ... [snip!] ... a 2 year age gap is what I initially wanted but it didn't end up being very ideal in our situation. Oh well, it's happening!"</blockquote>




Yeah in hoping the same.my mom had my oldest brother at 21, my dad was 26. My mom had me at 30 my dad 37 lol and had my youngest brother 11 months after i was born.she's 51 and is going to kareokeI'm how to spell it.bars and hanging out with her friends all night.she wished she had me sooner lol.i don't want to wait until 50 to have a social life.but then people tell me to wait because i can't travel the world,party..in okay with that because i was a party girl in my teensdid more than these college kids are doing lol i had my fun.and the travel part why can't i travel being a parent? Like i want leave them with trustworthy family.im going to san Francisco for the first time ever for my honeymoon and im not bringing the kids lol i can still have fun being a parent.

Quoting BαƚMαɳ:" WTF? Well... I think now would be a good time for that friend chat."

Oh meee too. I still have 2 hours till I see her

<blockquote><b>Quoting Aiden's Mommy   10/13/11:</b>" He accused me of cheating   said he didn't believe me because it's been a while since we've had ... [snip!] ... believe me because he would have seen signs a month into it (wtf??? I'm only 4 weeks.) It's going even worse than I thought."</blockquote>

Im sorry.i guess you were right with your gut feeling...hopefully he would get over it.my mother in law and sister in law said the s same thing until my oldest looked like my SO when he was born.