Mental crap & going out of town?:/ Advice?

Okay, so Spring Break is around the corner... I will try and make this short.

My mom wants me to come up to the campground and stay with them and my boys in their camper for 2 days. For some people that sounds fun... I want my kids to have fun of course, but I can NOT stay in that camper long. She says she will just take my 10 yr old then and my 4 yr old can stay home. I know my 4 yr old requires more, and I don't want him to miss out. But, I told her I would come and stay the entire day and drive home later. About a 45min drive total.

She's upset I don't want to stay overnight. I hate that camper, its a okay size... but I literally feel like that thing is closing up on me when I'm in there and it's such a tight space! Unfamiliar area... and all that. I have horrible panic attacks and anxiety when I'm not in my familiar area(mostly my house).

Wwyd?

I would do what you're planning, drive and come back. And I would take both kids. He's 4 years old, not 4 months. The campground is an awesome place for a 4 year old. If it's 45 minutes altogether then it's right around the corner basically.

Quoting Supafly★:" I would do what you're planning, drive and come back. And I would take both kids. He's 4 years old, not ... [snip!] ... campground is an awesome place for a 4 year old. If it's 45 minutes altogether then it's right around the corner basically. "

Thanks for the reply! Yea, that's what I'm sure I will do.

just drive over for the day, both days, with both kids (unless the older one wants to stay overnight without you). it's not that long of a drive and then you don't have as much packing either.

Quoting dream:" just drive over for the day, both days, with both kids (unless the older one wants to stay overnight without you). it's not that long of a drive and then you don't have as much packing either."

My mom is talking like she is going to keep them both now. I am just going to see them one day forsure and maybe go back the next. I'm not sure yet. I just like to sleep in my house. I'm weird about that.