my sons father & I just recently broke up 3 days ago, he decides that he don't feel the same anymore & he "don't know what he wants", & things like that... but before that we made plans to go visit his family who live outside of the US. & the day after breaking up with me he asked me if I'd still go with him? was just wondering what y'all would do in that situation.. I want to go but I feel like that it might just mess with my feelings more, cause I really do love this guy... (the trip is in month)
sorry if it takes a whole to reply I am on mobile. any advice is appreciated, still hurting a lot from then whole situation. & I wasn't sure where to post this.
it will mess with your feelings and be completely awkward. i cant imagine that working out well.
what would the arrangements be like?
like...a few days after breaking up? nah i would wait till you guys find a stable parenting relationship before doing much else together at all.
is there a chance he just needs time or is it really over?
<blockquote><b>Quoting cunning cuniculi:</b>" bad idea! it will mess with your feelings and be completely awkward. i cant imagine that working out ... [snip!] ... parenting relationship before doing much else together at all. is there a chance he just needs time or is it really over?"</blockquote>
I really am still tryin to figure out if its "really over" or he just needs time myself. he is very confusing at times.. /:
Well to me it would depend. If you want your son to have a relationship with his fathers family (like If that's important to you) then I would consider doing it for them and for my son, but only if you are emotionally stable enough to
Go and let it just be about that.. Not about you and your ex